Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | Re: Starting to panic...

I understand how you feel. My hubby previously worked in Minneapolis, Cincinnati and elsewhere so he was gone all week long and we saw him for a day and a half on the weekend. So I know what you're going through. It's a handful to have to deal with kids all by yourself, too. Often times, my hubby gets home so late and leaves so early in the morning that he doesn't even see the kids while they're awake. It makes for a very long day for me because I have no time to myself until they go to bed and by then I'm exhausted. Is there anyone around that can give you a hand while he's gone? Some family or friends that can give you a break here and there? How old are your kids? You should not expect yourself to look after the kids ALL the time. Speak up and ask for some help. It's a common misconception that we can look after babies 24/7. Or that it's easy. The women did it in the 50's, but a lot of them had emotional breakdowns and such. Don't expect too much of yourself. Ask for help. You are allowed to have time to yourself - it'll make you a happier and better Mommy. Hang in there. Sending you a great big hug.

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Formerly HanSolo. IBS, OCD, Bipolar, PTSD times 3.

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