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Hi guys. Need a whinge. So you all know DH is leaving in 6 days for his 6 weeks army training, but now, he applied to work for leave for the weekend so we could at least spend a day or 2 together before he leaves (he's working 12 hour nights atm, so we don't see each other at all) and his boss won't give him the time off. He told him too many of the boys mrs's are having babies atm and he can't fill the position and he doesn't care that DH is going away for 6 weeks straight

I know it's not the bosses fault that he can't fill the spot but I feel so let down and disappointed, and depressed. DH told me this morning that he'll be working till Monday, sleeping all day Monday then leaving Tuesday morning. I've spent all day trying to hold the tears in and be strong cause I don't want the kids to get upset about it, and it makes it harder on DH to go every time I get sad so I just try not to get sad when he's around. But every night when I go to bed I obsess about how much I'm going to miss him, and how I'm going to cope with the kids on my own while he's away (I know, I know, I should be strong enough to cope with my kids on my own, sadly I'm not). I need hugs guys! Please send me some!

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Amy

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