Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | Update on the twin situation!!(LONG AS ALWAYS)

Right, so I am supposed to be doing work right now and its 11.30pm but I am getting stressed out so am having a break and thought Id update you all on my twin situation....

Things never seem to slow down for me these days...if its not one drama its another....no wonder Im stressed....I think secretly I buzz off all this stress though...but anyways...

I saw Dan today....Ive been gona speak to him all week to explain to him about an argument that happened with one of his flatmates(the one who kissed 2 of my flatmates in the same night and then denied it)but it was also so I could get him on his own....well plan sorta worked but then completely didnt.

First to thurs night last week....I was out with my flatmate sylvia for a friends birthday...this friend I havent seen in weeks and ended up getting so drunk she had left b4 I even arrived....so I was not amused as I had spent money i dont have to get it. Anyways...once there we saw dans mate(the one who kissed my flatmates) and he was acting all weird and was very very drunk. He came up to me and started f*ing and blinding in my face saying we'd been saying stuff to his mates about that night and that he didnt kiss them both and that it was causing s*** between him and his friends and a load of other nasty rubbish. I told him to not shout at me cos it has nothing to do with me etc...he kissed me and sylvia on the cheek and said then dont say anything about it again.

Well....my friend anita(the one he's denying kissing) was really upset when we told her it was best to forget about him(cos he had said nasty things about her to us) and when she found out he was still denying the kiss to everyone and making her look stupid and a liar she went over there to confront him. Not a good idea when he was very drunk and to be honest I feel really guilty cos it looked like we were ganging up on him. I wanted nothin to do with it and waited downstairs until he started denying speakin 2 me in the club about it and then I had to intervene...I handled myself very well didnt lose my temper and he backed down and admitted stuff but was still being stupid...when I asked him something he turned around and I said please dont turn your back on me when Im speaking to you and he shut the door.

I was obviously upset that yet again there was gona be weird tension between dans flat and ours so I wanted to let dan know what happened, but also let him know that his friend would not be happy with me for telling him all this but I had to do it to clear things up.

So today my flatmate saw him outside and shouted him to come up...when he found out it was me who wanted to speak to him he looked afraid...I think he thought Id bring up the girlfriend issue but I made him come in my room and just as I was about to speak....guess who should call him on his mobile....THE GIRLFRIEND!! Yes I know....talk about timing....well he doesnt know I know it was her but it was obvious...he said he was at a 'friends' house in a weird voice and went to my kitchen...he was in the corner by the window and when sylvia went in and said 'oh hiya' he put his finger to his mouth as though to shush. When aisha walked in after she heard him telling her to stop crying....it was just so obvious to everyone who it was but I wasnt gona say anything.

So when he came into my room I told him about the argument thing...he knew nothing about it and was quite shocked...he told me to ignore him and just wave and be friendly next time I see him(his friend this is) and that that'll only p*** him off even more....dan knows his friend is a bit of a s*** anyways so he was fine....he said that explained why we hadnt been over to say hi recently...so it kinda cleared things up. It was also the first time we've been alone since he stayed over that time and so it kinda feels like things are back to normal now.

I didnt bring up anything to do with me....we were just talking about normal stuff and then he had to be at the gym for a certain time so it wasnt the best timing to throw that into the works....I'll decide what Im gona do about all that another time...I dont think its something I can force myself to do...now we're friends and whe we hng out and stuff it'll probably come up naturally....I could tell he was panicking that Id say something anyway so I just left it. My flatmates are mad at me for not sorting things but I think I cant push it....I was just happy sitting and talking to him....will keep you posted if I do!

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Natalie

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