OCD
02/23/05 04:48 PM
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Stephie
Reged: 03/10/04
Posts: 2696
Loc: Vancouver, Canada
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Hi there,
I had been thinking about what you said to me and Tina when you was going through it with her boyfriend, and I admit that I had thought about Adrian being OCD before.
The truth is, I am about 90% sure that his Dad is OCD. He was waaay worse than Adrian, and I am guessing that a lot of it with his Dad was alcohol but he had all the signs - shaking the door a bunch of times every time he left, chaining up the car, having to sit at specific tables.. that's just the beginning.
I have always had in the back of my mind how scared I am that Adrian will turn into his Dad, but I thought I was just being silly.. But now that we are here and everything is so exagerated, I am inclined to think he is heading down that path.
I have mentioned OCD to him. The first time he just got upset with me. The second time, he sort of accepted it but now just mentions it sarcastically like he is making fun of me for suggesting it. I don't want to push it, or be mean about it.. but I really am counting on it getting better once he adjusts, or I just don't know how it will work between us if he won't accept it.
I am getting pretty worried now, but trying to just give it some time.. Any advice you might have for me would be really appreciated.
Thanks for all your help,
*hugs*
Steph
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