Tina, sounds like you've got all your "ducks in a row" which is a good thing . The place sounds charming! I love old Victorian Houses. They have SO much character and I think you just decorating it how you want will be so theraputic for you. Glad it has a tub I too could never be without a tub. Us "crabs" need our water
You are being so strong through all of this and I know it will all work out in the end....you will be sad at first but think about how your new life will be after this is all over. OMG I hope he gives you the computer. If you can't let us know how things are going we will WORRY about ya Try to do some major bargaining with him.
Lots of luck with the next few hurdles you have to go through. WE are all here for ya though so please remember that!