Oh Beth, you're such a nice gal, you know that? Be firm when you ask your boss for that raise. Outline your reasons for why you deserve more pay. Write it down all before you go in to see her. I hate to say this because I do care about people but forget about your boss's stress level. That's her problem. You need to do what is best for you. I know you can get that raise Beth. You're a smart gal!