Yeah, he is a jerk. Don't ever ever ever again give him the time of day. I know you want to talk to let him know what you wre really feeling, to save face and everything, since the way you feel is alittle different than the way you came across to him. But, it is just giving more power to him since he is still just ignoring you or being rude. That is right, why couldn't he tell you two months ago? You made it clear that it was ok to be open, the only thing he had to lose was to hurt your feelings, and he was already doing that by not talking to you.
Talking to the boss about it is entirely unprofessional, especially because he gets to leave the situation, but you still have to work there atleast until you find a new job.
This guy is a crazy, or maybe it comes down to most guys not being able to communicate. You would think that gay guys would be better at it than straight guys, but I am finding that that is not necessarily true. 
Atleast he will be gone out of your life for good, you may still feel stupid over the situation, but everyone makes embarassing mistakes, you just gotta suck it up and move on!
One last thing... if he didn't even think that you were at the devloping a relationship phase, then think how crazy he is for telling a coworker that he is into voyeurism (sp?) !!!
have a great holiday if I don't get to talk to you!
*huggs*
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