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My sister is having a baby on January 10th. She is 33 and has two older kids. She is giving this baby up for adoption. She has picked a family and is set to give this baby up....but now she is having a hard time with it.

I too feel bad because my brothers wife is pregnant expecting a girl (my sister is also having a girl) and I am pregnant as well.

I feel really bad, because she is giving her baby up and will see me and my SIL with babies.

She has been telling my mom its really hard right now! She is diabetic and has to go to the hospital for non-stress tests for the baby. She prays that there are no babies in the nursery when she walks by... Last time when she had an ultrasound (about a week ago) the nurse told her the baby had a lot of hair. She started to cry. I don't think the nurse had a clue that she was giving her baby up.

I just feel so bad for her. And now that I'm pregnant I hope our relationship will be ok. I'm sure it will be, were pretty close!

She has had a really hard year. She wasn't going to have family come and see the baby, but she has changed her mind. She thinks she'll have us come and see the baby before she gives it to the family. I'm just wondering how to handle this situation....what do I say....ETC!!!

I'm very worried about her. I'm almost wondering if she'll keep the baby.....I just don't know what to say or do for her...any suggestions would be great!

Thanks!

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