I hate to say it it but men like that you don't need in your life.. I'd talk ot him about how hurt you feel because your issues aren't laziness as much as ill health and if he's going to behave like that you don't want him in your life.. then start looking at alternative living arrangements.. I hate to say it.. but sometimes we need to cut the bad stff out even if it hurts and sometimes thats people..its why I have less to do with certian of my family members then I'd like to and if it was up to me I'd never talk to them or see them again because I realized how toxic the relationships were and that I didn't need the stress or pain in my life... good luck! you will find the right, understanding guy!
-------------------- Dietetics Student (anticipating RD exam in Aug 2010)
IBS - A
Dairy Allergic
Fructose and MSG intollerant