Yeah that's my thing too..I've had big confidence and body image issues in the not too distant past and no matter how many times someone will tell me that I'm pretty or whatever part of me just doesn't believe. And I get the whole coming off snooty thing too. I don't know though, all in good time I suppose. But I'm glad you know where your relationship is headed though. I'm traditional like you and will definitely wait to be asked. Maybe he's just planning something big and wants to catch you off guard. - you sound like you found a great guy! Lucky girl! Where are you guys wanting to relocate to?