Sara, I was thinking the same things Jamie was saying, only he was saying them -- and doing it a lot better than I could have.
I followed your first thread on this, and made several suggestions, one of which (I believe) was: "if you're still hot for him, get over it." Like Jamie, I don't mean any disrespect, but it seems obvious that this guy ain't interested. Just your e-mailing him and then waiting to meet with him indicates you can't let it go. That's too bad; it's also too bad that you ever have to see him again.
I'd avoid him like the plague. BTW, how are you and the BF doing? Are you two still "together"? I thought your awareness of your attraction to the gay guy made you also aware that you were no longer attracted to the BF, isn't that what I read? Or did I mis-read you?
Sara, you can do SOOO much better than this guy. I'm just wondering if maybe you're still hot for him only because there isn't someone else in your life right now. If that's the case, hang in there -- something MUCH better will come along (provided you're open to it).
Bevvy
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