Well I just wanted to share that I was still in touch with him. But not like before. I would email him say 3 emails throughout the work day and I'd be lucky if he'd write back to one. I asked him so many times if he wanted me to stop and he kept saying no that he was going through a very rough period. He has strep throat AND mono. I guess I felt bad for him. Most of my emails were joke forwards with short "hope your day is going well" notes.
Anyhow, today was the last straw! I hadn't seen him for 2 1/2 weeks so I asked him for the 4th time if I could stop by his office for a quick chat. He ALWAYS made excuses as to why he was too busy (but swore that he wasn't avoiding me and was just super busy). I believed him. Duh!
I was sitting near his office by myself waiting for the others to come to yoga class when out he comes. He came over to me and asked a few quick small-talk questions. His eyes were so cold and he looked so emotionless. I was used to the happy, smiley guy.
I asked how he was nad he told me about the mono. I also asked him point-blank if he had been avoiding me and he said yes. But that he was avoiding everyone. Ya whatever...
Then the new yoga instructor came so he started talking to her and basically ignored me completely. He didn't even acknowledge me when I went into the class. He ran into his co-worker (and my friend) as she was coming to class and I heard him saying that he was so busy and had all these calls to make that morning. His excuse about not wanting me to visit him was that he had too many phone calls to make. So he was saying that to her solely for my benefit. SO LAME.
Anyhow, I finally had enough. I sent him an email saying that I was very dissapointed in his behaviour over the last few weeks and that he should not treat people that way. I told him that I wanted nothing to do with him anymore and that I wasn't wasting any more time on him! I also wrote that I would tell him off but for the sake of running into each other occasionally I wouldn't bother. He definitely got the hint though!
It felt soooo good!!!
Thankfully, he didn't respond and would be pretty dumb to as it's way too late for any apologies.
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I hadn't seen him for 2 1/2 weeks so I asked him for the 4th time if I could stop by his office for a quick chat. He ALWAYS made excuses as to why he was too busy (but swore that he wasn't avoiding me and was just super busy). I believed him. Duh!
