Hey Casey~ How is b/f now? Hopefully feeling better.
I don't have any advice about the headaches but maybe some about stubborn b/f. Mine is the same way. He won't make an appt ... BUT if some one makes it for him, we can get him to go in. Maybe you can do this, and tell b/f that if he misses the appt, he'll still have to pay for it (tell him less than 24hr in advance or something, to make it plausible).
Let him know that things like Advil can be really bad for the lining of the stomach if taken all the time. My docs got on my case about that when I OD'd ... So if he keeps this up, not only will he have severe headaches, but ALSO severe stomach aches too!
I agree with the idea of telling him how scared and upset you are about this, that you're afraid it could be something serious. Get teary-eyed and let him know how much your future together means to you. His pain doesn't just hurt him!
And if all else fails, desperate times call for desperate measures. Don't baby him when he is in pain. Tell him that you don't want to hear about it. If he isn't going to make the effort at least to get better, then what are you supposed to do for him? It might be hard to seem so mean, but G-d helps those who help themselves, so are you supposed to do more? Hopefully something will snap him out of the stubborness.
Feel better, hon, and good luck with this.
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