Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | Re: This is exactly what I would do! Caution, I stand up for what I believe in !!

OH Heather, I cannot imagine being propositioned by so called "friends". A second time no less too!

My H is a very strong minded man. He tells anybody and everybody exactly how he feels about things and he doesn't care if they like it or not.

After 28 years together, some of it has rubbed off on me, though I do consider who and what I am saying before it comes out of my mouth.

That said...

A question if you don't mind, and please don't take offense. Where is your h seeing this guy, to be in a position where this guy has a chance to repeatedly dog him about it? If it is at work, then I could see how it would be hard to get away from him. IF it were me, and remember, this is no advice, this is just what I would do if it were me. I would make sure my h understood that if the question is asked again, under no uncertain terms is this guy to walk away from the conversation not KNOWING where the two of you as husband and wife stand on it. IF that didn't work I would def call up his wife and tell her, NO WAY!!! And, I would also make sure she understood that the so called "friendship" is over. Done. Caput. BYE-BYE!!!

Just think, if they are asking you and your H, then who else in the circle of friends you have did they ask? And, by chance, how many of them said YES!! THat is extremely disgusting to me. YUCK.

I have a friend whose ex in-laws are into this nasty stuff. THey will do it with anybody and everybody. Swapping partners is NOT the only thing these people are into either.
Ever noticed a video camera sitting around when you visit their home? IT could be turned on.......ok, I will stop now. Just putting in my two cents.

I would be very upset if this happened to us. Maybe it will just go away?? Ya figure??

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