Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | This is out of control!! Advice, please...

Hi all,
So as you know I have been going through a really tough time lately.. I haven't really been posting 'cause I don't have any happy news yet and I just felt so down about never having anything good to talk about... But there is something now that is making me so mad I could scream and pull my hair out!! And I need to know what I should have done/what I should do now...
So my sorta-in-laws went away for a week and I thought it would be excellent because they are so overbearing and make it really uncomfortable for me to live here. So anyway, I was glad because I thought I'd really get to chill out.. then my Uncle died and I was really pre-occupied with that but what I wasn't doing was sleeping, and when I was sleeping I was having nightmares and I was just EXHAUSTED by the end of last week. So I told Adrian (bf)'s sister that I really needed to sleep Friday night because I had to work at 7 AM on Saturday, so she seemed nice about it and went out for the night. Adrian was gone because he is working nights.
So at 11:30 pm his sister shows up with about 20 friends. They were yelling and shouting and slamming the doors, ringing the doorbells, smoking cigarettes and other stuff in the house so it STINKS, playing music, just being so so so loud. So I was so mad I was nearly crying because I wanted to sleep SO SO bad but there were 2 hysterical girls outside the door of my room, fighting for a good twenty minutes about whether or not one of them had done all the cocaine or not.. and that was at 3 AM when I officially gave up on sleep. So lots of drugs, shouting, on and on until 4 AM, when they finally leave and give me 2 hours of peace before I have to leave for work.
Okay, fast forward to last night when the parents came home. So Adrian sits them down to tell them what's been going on... Because basically, if the police had been called that night (which I am shocked they weren't because we live in an attached house and it must have kept the neighbours up) I would have been arrested because I couldn't convince any sane person that I didn't know what was going on, I would have lost my job because I am on probation, Adrian would have been suspended without leave because he works in intelligence and is responsible for what happens in his own home, and his Dad would have either lost his job or been suspended too as he is a police officer. She is so selfish! So we tell them. About the cocaine, everything. His mum says, "But you don't have proof?" and goes on to say, "It's a shame you couldn't have taken a picture..." WHAT?!!? So his Dad freaks out, says he is going to kick her out (which he probably should because she is 21 and being spoonfed.. spoonfed drugs, as it is) and calls her home. So she doesn't come home.
So this morning, they confront her, and she starts screaming and shouting and crying and denying everything.. which OF COURSE she is going to do, nobody is going to say, "Yeah, mom, I do Class A drugs all the time and would certainly be in prison if I get caught". So what do they do? Tell her that _I_ have said all this stuff... then get upset that she is freaking out, and tell her it's okay... tell her to forget about it. So now I have to live in a house with this girl, who thinks I 'tattle tailed' on her about being a drug addict and a bunch of other stuff (she hasn't been going to work, she ate all our food, maxing out credit cards on crap, yada yada yada) and they are just going to carry on being ignorant to it.
What do I do now??? Was I wrong (or Adrian, really) to make them aware of what is going on in their own house? Or at least trying to, and having them decide we weren't telling the truth because they don't want to deal with it... Her credit card debts and her drug stuff could get everyone in this house in serious trouble and she doesn't even care. Her parents are constantly giving her money, and she is putting it straight up her nose, and now they know that and they don't even care...
But how can I live with her now? I haven't seen her yet, but I have a feeling I am going to get screamed and shouted at next and I really cannot handle confrontation. I wish I could just scream back because she won't respond to anything else, but I'm just not like that...
I just want to move back to Canada so bad, I have almost 3 months left here and it is killing me! And now this is just going to make my every day life so much more awkward and uncomfortable... if money wasn't an issue, I would leave right now... but I can't... So what do I do??
Steph

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