Hey Linzy,
The first year of marriage is always the hardest. "The bloom is off the rose," so to speak, and now you're down to learning how to tolerate each other's idosyncracies. Besides, every newlywed is broke, paying off the honeymoon, new furniture, and car loans -- few can afford new houses as you have!
Your situation is made more difficult with not only the new house but only one income. It's understandable that there will be some arguments. The job situation will work itself out in time, I promise you. It's just gonna take an infinite amount of patience on both your parts for awhile. You can do this, I know.
Try to find some alone time where you can "chill out," maybe do Michael's tapes or some meditation. And you need some hugs from Si. Tell him.
In the interim, here're some from me:
{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}
Bevvy
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