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Hi,
**hugs** **hugs** ** hugs**
I am so sorry you are feeling so down. I know how stressful money stuff can be and London is so expensive - it sucks the money right out of you!
I don't know a lot about the Fibro, but I can't even imagine being able to function if I felt so poorly.. and then the IBS on top of that? Oy.. you poor thing. Have you sat down and tried to explain in really easy to understand terms about your fibro on a day-to-day thing with Si? Maybe he is just taking a while to wrap his mind about the IBS and the Fibro at the same time... I think men can be so self-involved about stuff like that. Like I can be sick as a dog and get no sympathy, but boyfriend can get a leg cramp and it's like the end of the bloody world!

Stressing over it is probably the worst thing you can do, maybe try letting him know that so he knows he is just being counter productive by stressing you out.
What kind of part-time job are you looking for? In London?

I know the money thing is stressful now, but maybe try and focus on how happy you were around the wedding and what an awesome honeymoon you had.. at least the debt might seem a bit more easy to swallow. And you won't be in debt forever, it's just temporary glitch until you get back on your feet and the wedding gets paid off... at least you don't have to have another one!
*hugs again* Sorry again you are feeling low, you can always talk to us here or you have my eMail if you wanna chat!
Luv Steph

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~~I'm not crazy, I'm just a little unwell-I know right now you can't tell~~Matchbox 20
IBS-D,pain.

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