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      09/13/04 11:23 AM
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OH LINZ!!!!!!!!! *hugs*

Husbands DO NOT GET IT! I have been waking up at 3am on these meds...the only time I really have energy, and I'll make my hubby lunch for work. He has NO IDEA how much this takes out of me. Men are just SO CLUELESS! HE-LLO! I may not have fibro...but I certainly am not normal with all these meds....or being sick for a year with sinusitis. But unless you've lived it...you don't know from it....

Talk to your doc about what you're tellin us. Right now doesn't sound like a time to go off a-d. But maybe your doc knows something we don't?

Can you write your hubby a letter? Write down exactly how you feel and what goes through your thoughts for a day from the timeyou wake up till you go to bed at night. then share it with him. Maybe this will give him a better taste of what you're going through. Ask him what you can do to help him out...and ask him to do somethings to help you out. Say you want to work as a team TOGETHER and that you can't do it without him (stroke his ego) Let him know how important he is and how much it means to you he took the dog out....how that just made your life SO MUCH EASIER!

My husband has a hard time understanding what I go through. But I've been trying to exaplin it to him (I might try my own letter suggestion, LOL) and it does help when they understand where we're coming from. they just need a lot more direction and clear cut examples than a woman friend does. they just can't relate!

I'll keep you in my prayers that you find a job soon and that money finds it's way to your door! In the meatnime, make sure you take of yourself! That's most important! The woman is the center of the home and you're worth every cent, every minute, and everything!

Feel better Linz!

Love,
Ruchie



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* Getting depressed
Linz
09/13/04 11:08 AM
* Ahlmmmmmm........
Bevvy
09/14/04 02:24 PM
* Fibro "Letter to Normals"
LauraSue
09/14/04 10:47 AM
* Re: Getting depressed
ChristineM
09/13/04 08:03 PM
* ARGH.
jenX
09/13/04 02:23 PM
* Jen
Linz
09/14/04 12:09 AM
* Re: Getting depressed
Yoda (formerly Hans)
09/13/04 12:50 PM
* I'm your twin today!
bamagirl
09/13/04 12:43 PM
* Re: Getting depressed
heather7476
09/13/04 12:38 PM
* Aww Linz!
Stephie
09/13/04 12:28 PM
* Steph
Linz
09/13/04 01:08 PM
* Re: Steph
Stephie
09/13/04 01:17 PM
* Thanks Steph - nt
Linz
09/14/04 12:10 AM
* Re: Getting depressed
Miss Pepper
09/13/04 12:10 PM
* LINZ *hugs*
Snow for Sarala
09/13/04 11:23 AM
* Ruchie
Linz
09/13/04 01:06 PM
* Re: Getting depressed
barbie
09/13/04 11:18 AM
* Thanks guys!
Linz
09/13/04 01:05 PM

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