I know that this is little consolation - but I truly believe what goes around comes around. Your neighbour is a complete jerky-idiot and every other nasty word I can think of. People like that run on a self destruct course. He may have the upper hand now, but that childish behaviour someday will turn around and slap him in the face. It may not be tomorrow, but he will get what is coming to him.
How do your other neighbours feel about it? Do they know? Maybe you could talk to them about it. Who knows? Maybe they can help.
It wasn't your fault - so why should he take action against you?
Anyway, a couple of suggestions - I know you feel miserable and awful. How about getting away for a "getaway". You don't even have to leave your house. Have you and your hubby have an evening to yourselves, rent a movie (I recommend a couple comedies - you could use a laugh right now), get takeout or make your fav. meal and loaf around. Also, remember that he is not hurting over all this. Try not to give him the satisfaction of upsetting you and comprimising your health.
Hugs.
Do you have a local newspaper? I think sometimes, letters to the editor can be VERY helpful .....
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