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Re: Harassment at work due to IBS!
      05/10/03 09:32 PM
Snow for Sarala

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Loc: West Coast, USA

I like to give people the benefit of the doubt.

Obviously this person has problems--that's what I was saying when I said they need to talk about you and they don't have anyting better to talk about. I feel bad for them! It IS pathetic...and I don't mean that to be mean--I really DO feel bad for them!

I don't feel bad for you! You are taking care of yourself, you go to work EVEN THOUGH IT'S HARD! I give you a LOT of credit! And the fact that you are able to care about this person--that shows strenghth and character! Are you being too nice? No--BUT I don't like the way this person is having a negative affect on your life--that's NOT fair!

If we TRULY believe that a person has their own problems and they are "using" us to feel better about themselves--then we truly become a better person--BUT only if it doesn't hurt us in the process. Does that make sense?

I hope this helps...and again, GOOD FOR YOU!

((Hugs))

Ruchie

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