Irritable Bowel Syndrome Message Boards | Re: I am new here, and facing surgery...

Thanks Terri, I really needed to see a reply and a nice one came from you. I am trying to be as positive as possible, but, I know how painful an abdominal incicison is and I am dreading it. I should be so ashamed of myself, there are so many people with larger problems. I feel really alone right now, I have a great support system, everyone has offered help in many different ways. My husband is doing the man thing, he cant fix it, so he is working overtime and doesnt have much to say right now. I really need him to be his sweet self and nest with me, honestly, I dont see that happening. It hurts, I cant make him understand, and this is causing me anxiety I dont need right now. When the time comes, he will be there for me, but right now I feel abandoned. Dang those men and their backward ways! Enough whinning, tomorrow is another day and my best freind is coming over to steam clean my carpet. How did I get that lucky!!!!! HOpe to hear from you soon!! Thanks again!

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