I have listened to you for awhile now, and have tried to be as supportive as possible. I understand how distressing IBS can be, as do all here. I understand your bodybuilding goals as I used to lift and compete.
But...enough is enough. Your posts are bordering on rude and obnoxious, you beat Heather up for no reason, and you whine, whine, and whine. Grow-up!
Get this! This IS the hand you were dealt, so learn to live with it. None of us here want IBS, but it is NOT the end of the world, neither it is a death sentence.
So, you can't hang out and have a cold beer with your buds. Well, get over it. So you can't go out on the spur of the moment. Well, get over it.
Your freedom and spirit ended, as you say, the day you decided it ended. IBS did not end it...you did. Your mind is your worst enemy, from what I can tell. Stop looking at the glass half-empty, and try looking at the glass half-full.
Another thing, I doubt Heather's life is as "normal" as you think. Do you think she drinks beer? I doubt it. Do you think she does things on the "spur of the moment", without planning? I doubt it. Do you think every darn day of her life is peachy? I doubt it. The difference between you and Heather is attitude, attitude, attitude.
Grow up and stop whining. Stop worrying so much about how you look and worry more about how you feel. You really need to get a grip, because I do believe you are driving most on this board, NUTS!
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