Thanks, guys, for all your questions and ideas AND SUPPORT. I've analyzed this thing to death, and I've come to the conclusion that she's scared. She tells me of symptoms that she has that sound very much like IBS. While she denies that she has it, she admits to a problem of urgent BMs, such that she always wears a Kotex to "catch" the urgency. I didn't understand this because she's only a few doors away from a bathroom (she's a dental receptionist); she claims she can't make it that far when she's stuck on the phone with a client. I tried to get her to see a doctor, but she said she didn't need one. I think she might be a little in denial, and seeing what I'm going through scares her. If I'm right, then I don't want to pursue this with her any more. I miss her, but I just have to move on. Thanks again for your thoughts. Bev.
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