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I totally believe that if you tell people up front and don't hide it that you'd be surprised the reaction you get. Most people are sympathetic and believe it or not, I've had MANY people tell me that they too have IBS and I would have never known it!

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Hey Lisa, I finally fessed up to my boss in the middle of July about what I had been going through for the past almost 2 years and she nor my coworkers could believe it 'cause I never look sick--in other words, I hid it well. It was then that they understood why this party animal wasn't scheduling outings, stopped playing pool, stopped going out to lunch, etc. Why I no longer dressed "hot" as they put it, no more makeup, no more trips to the hair or nail salon, no more vacations, etc. They were super sympathetic and understanding. They've seen me break down at my desk and then understood why I'd wear my sunglasses while I worked! I've since taken 3 weeks off (I go back on Monday the 20th) and last week I sent an email message to my boss to let her know what I've been doing, how I've been feeling, etc. I'd like to share with you guys her message to me:

Hey it's great to hear from you! I did get your message yesterday but didn't have a chance to respond. Things were quite crazy here yesterday. I didn't make it in until after 10:00am and Pat didn't get in until after 1PM. I then decided to leave early since there was still no E, F, or V service to Queens and I knew the express buses would be a mess! Anyway, I'm so glad you sent the note below. I've been thinking about you and wondering how you were doing. It sounds like you're making progress both physically and psychologically. As you point out, half the battle is dealing with this illness and I know that if anyone can do it, you can. You're a strong person, Wendy. During this past year you put all of your strength and energy into maintaining a happy front and making sure no one saw what was really going on with you. Now you can take that energy and redirect it into a positive, life-changing, force. Keep it going, girl. By the way, you are an excellent writer. Have you ever thought about writing as a second career? Seriously, I really think you should look into it.

Should I go ahead and pass this on to the guys here? Let me know.

Take care.

Doreen


Tomorrow they'll be receiving a basket of cookies from me thanking them for being so understanding.

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Wendy IBS A thru Z
Taking it one day at a time...

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