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My cousin is getting married in june. She wants me to spend the night the day before the wedding. I told her i'd be happy to bring my own food. She said "No I'll make you something but I don't know what." She said "Fruit will be there" I Said "no" then said why. She said "fruit makes you regular." Then I explained to her I hardly eat any fruit. Well she continued to ask about pork chops,hamburger, lots of stuff I couldn't eat. I just said no to all those things and said why I couldn't eat that. I said lots of carb food, i eat lots of rice. She said wheat noodles are good,i said no I can't eat those.Do any of you Ibs-c eat wheat noodles? So it sound like i'll be living off some rice for 2 days...Even though she said she'd cook for me, I'm still going to bring my own food..At the wedding reception too. The thing is I don't want to make her feel bad and I really don't want to attract attention to myself at the reception..My aunt or someone will be offering me to try something..or someone wil notice I'm not eating the wedding cake..I could say my stomach hurts and I don't want to eat much at the reception. I'm going to be stressed out too because I really don't like my grandpa, he's not a good man, neither is my aunt, she took care of me for about 10 years and it was hell becaue I was always treated like [censored] and i'd only crap once a week and always plug the toiltet and she got mad at me..maybe by some miracle i'd get the flue or something..My cousin said I can drink at her house, I really wanted to so I said cool. I know from my family they'll be telling me how fruit and vegtables are good and what i should eat, then i'll give them my ibs explanation why, my family will just look at me funny when i tell them or its in my head or something..

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