I know it's a subject that's difficult to just come out and be honest with, but really it does work. I have yet to meet a guy who thinks my IBS is 'disgusting' or thinks I'm wierd. I talk to my friends about my issues with food all the time and they've all been supportive. Even some people will go out of their way if they know I'm coming for dinner, to make sure there's something I can eat too.
My boyfriend knew about my IBS before we even started dating. For our first date I even said no to going to dinner, instead changing plans a bit to do something else. None of it mattered. So for dating, with friends etc, I think as long as you get comfortable with it, everyone else will too.
I don't think I'd be very comfortable with someone who had IBS. I know that sounds dumb, that I should be understanding, but if someone close to me had as much anxiety around food as I did, it would probably make me worse. I feel better when those close to me know my condition, are supportive, and are there to calm me down around suppers/restaurants/stressful events.
That said, I think you would find it really suprising how open and supportive other people can be about something like IBS. Maybe start by talking to your friends about it, and get comfortable with that. That should help you get more comfortable with dates and relationships.
I hope that helps somewhat,
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