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Re: Embarassed but
      08/25/05 11:28 AM
lalala

Reged: 02/14/05
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Who wants to cuddle with a BOB?

I think this would be a good issue to discuss with your therapist. Maybe she can provide a reason why this belief isn't correct. Or maybe to start you can ask yourself Why do you think thinner is better? Does this belief hurt or help your well-being? What does it mean to be thin? Does it mean people will like you better? Does it automatically make you better than other people? And what do you consider thin? When you look at other women, what do you consider beautiful? Who are the most beautiful women you know in real life? What makes you admire them?

Now, does your DH prefer you to be thinner because he thinks you look better or was your attitude different when you're thinner? Maybe back then you were more comfortable with yourself and that confidence is what attracted him.

Sorry if I've butted in on this discussion, but I think I look good when I FEEL good. Well, now I'm going to worry about you two. Both of your personalities sparkle through your posts, so I already think you're beautiful!

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* a little blue now..
little bear
08/24/05 10:08 PM
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jaime g
08/25/05 09:32 AM
* aww
little bear
08/25/05 09:54 AM
* I've been there....
epa_ginger
08/25/05 11:38 AM
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atomic rose
08/25/05 04:44 AM
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little bear
08/25/05 09:59 AM
* LOL! A B.O.B.!
Wind
08/25/05 07:01 AM
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little bear
08/25/05 10:05 AM
* Yeah, exactly...
atomic rose
08/25/05 09:09 AM
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Wind
08/25/05 02:41 AM
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little bear
08/25/05 10:10 AM
* Re: ashley's ambition
Wind
08/25/05 03:20 PM
* anorectic? orthorexic?
jaime g
08/25/05 09:22 AM
* Oh honey
Stephie
08/24/05 10:17 PM
* Re: Oh honey
little bear
08/25/05 10:15 AM
* No, I DON'T think they look prettier...
Stephie
08/25/05 03:26 PM
* Re: No, I DON'T think they look prettier...
Dr. Spice Yamin
08/25/05 04:26 PM
* speaking of airbrushing...
jaime g
08/25/05 10:28 AM
* Embarassed but
Snow for Sarala
08/25/05 11:09 AM
* Re: Embarassed but
Wind
08/25/05 01:46 PM
* Too thin
Portageegal
08/25/05 11:56 AM
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lalala
08/25/05 11:28 AM
* Re: Oh honey
lalala
08/25/05 10:24 AM

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