Esp. since my hubby thought I looked better at 110 lbs than I do now at 135 lbs (I am 5'5 and a half). I DO need to work out to look better. BUT he thinks I looked GREAT when I was underweight HE is so influenced by the media (even though we don't own a television anymore!) and by what he sees in his office and walking down the streets...of course he wants me to look like a BOB
I have no IDEA how to deal with this! Maybe I should speak to my therapist about it?
I honestly WANT to eat what my body wants and leave the rest and not worry about it!
sigh
I think thinner looks better as it is what I was taught at home and in the media and from the women walking down the street. VERY upsetting....but I look at the stars in the mags waiting to buy my groceries and also think thinner looks better
What can we do to CHANGE this....obviously we must begin with ourselves...anyone have any thoughts on how Ashley and I can CHANGE oursleves...reprogram?
Thanks for sharing...I'm proud of you and your honesty...you rock! Love, Ruchie
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HE is so influenced by the media (even though we don't own a television anymore!) and by what he sees in his office and walking down the streets...of course he wants me to look like a BOB 
