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hi
Hiya. Sorry I didn't reply to your earlier post sooner, I really meant to but I got sidetracked as I am at work at the moment.
can i just say how grateful i am to get people who are reaching out to my pleading hands. I am desperate at the moment and hope that no-one thinks im selfish that i dont offer anyone else any help. You all have my full support and understanding but im afraid i cant offer any suggestions. i have only just started suffering from this.
Don't worry about it, nobody thinks you are selfish. It takes a lot of time, it might be a while before you get a handle on things so of course you're not able to start giving everybody else advice! You need to get yourself sorted before you can start helping other people.. It will come with time, though, don't worry!
I went to my doctor this afternoon because of my back pain, which has been caused by straining on the toilet. (I literally have to push on the walls either side to give me more strength!) And he didnt want to give me any pain killers as he said im already on enough tablets. (contraceptive pill, mebeverine, ADs) so i am coping with my 2 year old boy, part time job and housework without painkillers! Argh! I also explained the pushing and the mucus and he said i must hold out for the ADs to work properly and not expect miracles straight away. I've been going to see the doctor EVERY WEEK since 7th March. I thought i'd been fairly patient. Or not?
Okay, first of all.. this may sound like silly advice and I am not sure 100% but.. I think you should stop the crazy pushing! Straining and pushing has already given you back pain, and it can give you hemmorhoids and fissures and not-nice stuff. Try and fight the urge to strain like that if you can.. I know it's hard. If the doctor won't give you pain killers and you are in a lot of pain, maybe try taking some tylenol.. We don't get tylenol with codeine over the counter in Canada either, but some extra strength might help at least a little.
The other thing about painkillers is sometimes they can make other IBS symptoms worse so you do have to be careful with stuff like that.
How long have you been on the anti-depressants for? I think they should help with your symptoms and your anxiety but I'd definitely say you can't just rely on them to control your symptoms... Hmm...
Also, I was on mebeverine in the UK for ages and found that it really did nothing for my symptoms. Have you ever tried any other medication?

I know everyone is going through the same so im sorry to moan. Its just so nice to have people to talk to who understand. Ive just left work after 2 hours and the other ladies there were playfully teasing that im "bunking off again". I wish! Its hard when you cant explain to people. Even those closest who you are honest with. They dont see what its like when i literally look like im giving birth over the toilet!! And the rest.
We know how you feel, don't worry about it!!
Thank you thank you everybody.

By the way, i havent eaten anything today (apart from small bowl of cornflakes and milk) as i am too scared I will eat something to make more mucus. What should i do?
Woah, woah... Wait a minute, you ate cereal and MILK? Oh honey, nonono! Milk is a big time trigger.. If I drank milk, I'd have mucous too! And then some!
Have you read the diet guidelines yet?
Make sure you check out the pages on triggers, and make sure you are avoiding all of them COMPLETELY! Especially when you are as ill as you are right now! Oh no no, you go to that fridge and throw that milk in the bin! Evil, evil milk!

Okay, sweetie, have you been properly diagnosed with IBS? Have you had all the tests and everything? You need to make sure that your doctor has taken the necessary steps to rule out any other conditions that have similar symptoms to IBS.
I want to stress this particularly for you because it seems like you are really going through it, and not all people with IBS seem to have SUCH a problem with the mucous... That being said, you might be consuming a fair amount of foods that are playing havoc on your digestive system and they are freaking out.. thus the mucous.

Go on the "What to Eat When you Can't Eat Anything" diet for a while.. drink loads and loads and loads of water, try the peppermint and fennel teas and make sure you are avoiding all trigger foods.

Lots of love and happy stomach wishes for everybody.
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You too!! Let us know if you have any more questions and how you are doing!!
--Steph

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