I thought I could just get some recipe ideas to add more variety. Then maybe the rest of the family would be more supportive. One thing I thought of...give them an "assignment" to see how creative they could be in the kitchen making a dish that would suit everyone. My children are old enough....and adventurous enough...to tackle cooking. This site has offered tremendous support but I guess my frustration lies in IBS cooking/eating 24/7. I don't have a problem with it...I promised my son I would eat what he does...but we are creatures of habit and my other children are being somewhat stubborn to this change. But they can live with it easier than they think. I may check with the pediatric GI office and see if they know of a local support group.