Mmm. Stir-fry sounds so good. I've never had a problem with water chestnuts, baby corn, and thinly sliced (or diced) carrot sticks in stir-fry.
After being stable for a while, I was able to reintroduce broccoli (my fave veggie as well!) in small, well-cooked amounts. But I think it's a good idea that you're avoiding it for now.
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Re: Veggies Safe for Stir fries?
I've never had a problem with water chestnuts, baby corn, and thinly sliced (or diced) carrot sticks in stir-fry. 
