Some parents have a REALLY hard time letting go of their children. They raised us...they gave to us day and night unconditionally! It's hard for them to let go. I'm not saying it justifies their clingy/controlling behavior...it might explain it though.
Some folks in my family think they know what's best for me--and they give me their opinions freely. I try to remember where they're coming from. They just want me to be happy...AND they want to feel like they're stil a part of my life, a BIG part. It's tough for them to let go. Are you the oldest child in your fam? I am...and I feel this also factors in.
I hope this helps a little! I wish you luck in whatever you decide--have confidence in yoursrelf and your decisions and don't let other's opinions get you down!
Posts
Re: Does anyone else have a family member who is a trigger for your IBS?
