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words cannnot describe how comforting all your words are to me!!
having an orgasm definetely helps relax my tummy!! but I am not able to orgasm through penetration alone which means hubby has to play with me, which is fine, but since I have endless vaginal infections I kind of don't want him down there. I feel like its yucky (I used to be such a free relaxed lover!). Doggy is the way forward apart from making it hard to hold your anal sphincter shut if there are huge farts wanting to escape...I've had many close shaves!!! :-)
I am so glad I am not the only one who's sex drive is effected. I mean, it makes sense when you are ill not to have a sex drive but once IBS becomes a permanent fixture you forget that you are an 'ill' person because its just a chronic pain in the ass, pun intended. I have spent ten years with this damn thing so I forget I can count myself as bad as someone with a tummy flu when the attacks come. I really should cut myself some slack.
Adult movies definetly help and they were something that used to always get me going. Thats when it hit me that I am not satisfying my husband because it used to be a fun thing we did together occassionally and now he is doing it on his own and not telling me because he is worried I will get upset. Fair enough, because I am so sensitive that I am not being the wife I wanted to be.
Thank you so much again and good luck with getting pregnant michele!!
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