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Hey Sis,
Just wanted to post again in case you didn't see my other post to you and the other brave gals pouring out their secrets.
You will always be my Sis no matter what. You are a wonderful, loving person and great advice giver. You have a big heart and nothing else really matters.
Now, I want to know if you have my room ready in the new<<< and I might add beautiful>>>> home of yours????
Barbie
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I said it earlier, but I just want to affirm it before I take my secret off the board at the end of the day. I have nothing but respect not only for the strength and courage you all have, but also for your strength and courage in sharing. There is no shame here; I think we all have more respect because of what has been shared.
Bless you all!
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Christine
Those who can do; those who want it done better teach.
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...because I know I didn't specifically reply to everyone's posts. For the strength you all have in dealing with what you have, and for the courage you've shown in sharing, I respect all of you. Greatly.
As if we needed further proof that we're an amazing group of people! 
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Hey LS,
Not much activity going on here either. No complaints from me. Hubby is on blood pressure medicine (reduces his sex drive) and I am post menopause (I don't give a hoot about it anymore) and this is one of the happiest times of our marriage. We are best friends! Sometimes he jokes and when he sees a commercial about Viagra he says to me " You want me to get some" and I say "no" I'm just fine....and that is the end of that. Then we go on laughing about something on TV and bonding in a way that we never were able to do before.
Just rambling....I'm starting to be like my Sis.
Barbie
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bev and laura sue- you blew me away by that one!
I have to admit, when I was younger I would have been bothered by that (I say younger like I am so old! LOL), but some experiences changed me.
I always thought that people with different lifestyles were wrong. but things WERE alot different then than they are now. A couple of years has really changed things.
You know how I said I went to a school for "special" kids? SOme of my classmates were there because they were gay and thier peers found out, going to public school was no longer an option. I didn't realize this. at the time I was a complete "homophobe" and used common kid slang (calling everything negative 'gay"). I did not find out until after graduation that some of my best buddies in school (didn't hang out outside of it) were gay.
I even shared a bed with a lesbian on a class trip.
About a year and a half ago I introduced a VERY flamboyent gay guy friend that I made through some friends of my BF to a close family member. One month later he came out to me, before he came out to many people at all, because he saw how cool I was with it (his words). I was floored by this, but immediately accepted it. it didn't even bother me, and wasn't a big deal to me. he was the same person I always knew... he just now liked guys instead of gals.
i have since been to two gay bars/clubs and have had the time of my life, even though I am straight.
It should make us all very proud to be living through such a revoloutionary time.
Well, I didn't mean to write that much... but I always get carried away! 
I would like to echo any comments that have been made that EVERYONE who posted today is still my sistah, even though we have never met.
You are all VERY brave, I know I didn't write to EVERYONE's post, there were just too many!
Oh, and peaches, PLEASE don't be in a rush to gain your bad secrets!  The fact that you are so sweet and innocent I think is a big enough sin itself  (just kidding with ya)
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just teasing... that's really cool that you are able to express yourself in that way. Although I am most certainly NOT the most demure in bed, I do know that I am too shy to put anything of that nature in writing!
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just posting here to say SMOOCHES. i said what i had to say on email when i was locked out of the site.
you're always my best buddy Bevrs. so there! (besides, since i've known your secret for months, obviously it doesn't bother me at all! )
and, by the way, i still expect to come for a visit. if you were trying to get rid of me, it didn't work. 
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i see you snuck it in there. i almost couldn't hear it 'cause of the mumbling!
well, sweets, i hope you know me well enough by now to know that your little secret doesn't phase me at all. i'm glad you're feeling like you can share it- that must be a burden lifted!?
i admire your morals for sticking to your vows. i don't think that's something most people put enough stock in. i am sorry Andy is in a little bit (little!?) of denial about it, though. it must be difficult to be coming to realizations about yourself and not have your best friend be able to get his mind around it.
so.... have you gone into the gay bar?!?!? how much lookin' are ya doin'!?!?!
well, thanks for sharing. i'm touched that you chose to share this with us.
SMOOCHES, as always.
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Sorry guys...I'm not brave enough to share mine. I admire everyone who has though.
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~ Rachel (IBS-C)
If life hands you lemons, make lemonade!!
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