Another miscarriage for me
#86721 - 07/06/04 08:32 AM
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michele
Reged: 06/02/03
Posts: 6886
Loc: southeastern michigan
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Sorry it took me so long to give you all an update. I went in Friday for my ultrasound and there wasn't a heartbeat, the baby measured 6 weeks and 3 days, I should have been over 7 weeks. They wanted me to give it the weekend to be sure. By Saturday most all of my pregnancy symptoms were gone, so I knew. It was a long, horrible weekend.
They repeated the ultrasound this morning to verify what I already knew. I am scheduled for a D & C tomorrow. They are going to run some extra tests to see if they can't find any answers as to why this is happening again. They said I need to wait until after I have 2 regular periods to try again.
Even though I haven't been posting much here in the last few weeks, I know some of you were thinking about me and I really appriciate all the support.
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Taking it one day at a time.....
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Oh Michelle, honey!
I feel so bad for you! I know you have wanted this so bad. I hope you have lots of support around you. Have they done the tests before to try to find out why it has been so hard for you? I hope you are feeling alright. My one most important thing to say - God has a plan, do not blame Him, do not blame yourself, know that He has made you perfect for His purposes - not to be preaching, but to encourage you - to try at least. You will be in my prayers.
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I am so sorry. I just emailed you and I guess I was too late like I feared. I wish I could offer more than a sorry. Two miscarriages are horrible for sure. Hopefully they will find out why this keeps happening. So here's hoping #3 will be the charm.
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Oh no. I'm so sorry. Just hang in there and keep trying.
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Hey sweet girl, I know how much you wanted this sweet little one. I am sorry for your loss and you are in my prayers!!
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Oh, Michele --
#86733 - 07/06/04 08:52 AM
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Bevvy
Reged: 11/04/03
Posts: 5918
Loc: Northwest Washington State
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Honey, I'm SOOOOO sorry. Oh dear, this is terrible news. I can't imagine what you're going through, I really can't. I was never able to have children, but I knew all my life that I never would be able to, so I always accepted it. And when you're a little kid, you really don't care at that age, so it's easier to accept, and you live with it all your life. Being sterile had its advantages: never having a period, never having monthly cramps, never needing birth control, oh yeah some great advantages.
But I always knew that I could adopt if I wanted children. And I thought that was a kinda cool idea, to be able to "pick-and-choose" and give all my love to someone who wouldn't otherwise get it from anyone else.
Michele, please accept my sincere sympathy. Don't let this dissuade you from continuing to try. I know of friends who gave up and adopted -- and then got pregnant and had several girls successfully (who turned out to be spoiled brats -- but that's another story).
{{{{{{Hugs}}}}}}
Bev
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i'm soooo sorry. what a terrible thing. i can't express my sadness for you...
i will keep thinking of you. hang in there the best you can...
SMOOCHES.
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Thanks everyone. I just want it to be over with now. I think after tomorrows D & C, I will be able to start healing better. I do plan on trying again as soon as they say I can. I'm just not sure how many more times I can go through this. Lets pray that the third time is the one!
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Oh NO, Michelle!! Oh, God, I'm so sorry, girl. Well, there must have been a reason. I don't know your spiritual beliefs but I think the following thought might apply here.
God has only three answers:
* Yes
* Yes but not now, and
* No I have something better in mind.
I'm sure that this is just a "Yes but not now" and when it's meant to happen it will. You're young and strong and healthy and when it's time you'll have a happy, healthy baby. Have faith!
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Laura
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So sorry
#86759 - 07/06/04 09:22 AM
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StephS
Reged: 09/11/03
Posts: 2123
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HI Michele,
What a hard time your going through right now. I hope that you start feeling better soon. Good luck tomorrow with the D and C. I sure hope they can figure this out for you.
My husbands cousin went through a hard time with miscarrages. She had one at about 9 weeks.....got pregnant again and lost it at around 20 weeks....it was a freak thing. Anyhow....now she has two little boys. It took her some time but she finaly had two normal pregnancies.
I hope that will be the same case for you. Give yourself some time. I'm sure you'll be a mom someday.
I'll keep you in my thoughts. Again, I'm so sorry for your loss and the pain your going through.
{{{{HUGS}}}}}}
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