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Hiya,
I think it's really nice when a guy isn't all drooly over boobs but the thing with me is, I've got 'em... so you might as well like 'em... Like, my boyfriend is at least a "breast guy" rather than a "legs guy" or whatever else. So in that way, it works out pretty well for me.
My problem was, when I was from about 16-20, most of my closest friends were guys.. and they all liked the same type of girl: Stick thin, no boobs, no hips, blonde/straight hair. So I was totally the wrong type, which was fine 'cause we were just friends, but I really spent those years thinking I had a horrible body. Now, picture this.. When I was 16 years old I weight 110 lbs and had large end C cup boobs. Okay, I can't remember exactly what my body looked like then 'cause I was so busy thinking it was horrible and covering it up in baggy sweatshirts (I used to wear my DAD'S Club Monaco sweatshirts to school - my Dad is not a small man!) but if someone told me now that a girl weight 110 lbs (I was into ballet dancing and gym stuff at the time) and had C cup boobs, I'd think that was pretty good!! By the time I finally got away from the idiot guys I grew up with, and got comfortable with my body and realised boobs aren't only to be constrained as tight as possible against the body and hidden at all costs, I had gained 30 lbs and was self conscious for all new reasons! Oy!
Luckily, coming to England and getting away from every single thing that ever made you feel ugly or fat or anything has made me gain SO MUCH confidence. I feel so better in my own skin, and I like my boobs (from time to time) and my body and everything feels so much better. I think the boyfriend helped with that a lot.
Um, to make a long story short... That is why I am glad my boyfriend is a boob man. Yay.  But I can still be glad that there are men like Jamie who aren't. Yay again! 
--Steph
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#82438 - 06/23/04 01:43 PM
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Sheri01
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I understand TOmmy- big boobs grab my attention too- even though I am obviously not interested!
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I haven't followed this whole thread, but I got bits and pieces -- obviously, I didn't miss the male posts -- and I'll just add this: I'm damn glad hubby is a boob man! Double D here, and the only one of us who enjoys them is him. They're heavy, weigh me down, cause my bra straps to dig into my shoulders, put a strain on my back, and always get in my way. I went to a plastic surgeon a few years back and said, "cut these things down for me!" He took off my shirt and bra, marked me up, took pictures, and sent the pics to my insurance company. Unfortunately, it was VERRRRY expensive, and my insurance refused to pay, even though I had a good claim that they were causing back problems. ARGH!
All you "B" cup women, LUCKY YOU!
In my next life I'm comin' back as a man.
BB
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Steph, I really enjoyed your post. Looks, body types, attraction. They are all complicated things. The thing to remember for everybody, both guys and girls, is there really isn't one perfect body type. That's the great thing about this world in that everybody has different tastes.
I totally agree with you in that the ideal partner is someone who likes what you got. ie. The fact that your boyfriend is a 'boob man'.
My particular taste in women is probably similar to your old 'idiot' friends, although I prefer brunettes. BUT, that's just my personal preference, each of my roommates likes different physical features in women. Actually, a couple of them thing I have awful taste in women! Just as girls like different physical features in guys. Suprisingly, not all women like skinny pilots  but, there are some that do (they're just hiding).
I've gotten in trouble before with female friends who will actually get mad at me that I find skinny girls attractive, which I really don't think is fair. I am not mean about it, I know LOTS of guys that prefer women with some curves and I NEVER put down how a women looks.
ok, I'm rambling on so maybe I should just get to the point. And yes this will sound 'sappy after school special' ish, but I think it's important to for people to be proud of what they've got, and realize that everybody has got different tastes and that every woman is beautiful in her own way. Most guys are too, (except for the ones with really bad back hair and who wear speedos at the beach)
OH OH OH, I do have one more comment regarding women and breasts. While the majority of guys will not be rude about it, ladies, if you go out to a club or bar and wear a super low cut shirt, guys ARE going to look at your boobs. It's like a deer caught in headlights. ok, there, rant over 
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If you are not boob men, than what is the main physical attribute that you are attracted to? For some reason, there are mostly boob guys around me, so I never dated too much, My boyfriend now has dated all shapes and sizes- he is more of a total package kinda guy.
My natural asset is my legs- no matter how skinny I have been I have always had nice shapely long legs
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Funny you just posted this Jamie, I think you just answered my question I just posted to you! Anyone else think that this thread is getting outta control? 
I love it!
Oh yeah, and Jamie- if I wasn't so much in love with my BF I would totally have a crush on you! And I'm not boy crazy either!
But then again, BEvrs is married and that doesn't stop her...
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not about the coming back as a man part, tho. i'm coming back as a freakin' pampered poodle, man. someone can carry me around in a Gucci bag and feed me some choice food. heck, paint my toenails- what do i care!?
but about the big ones--- geez. more trouble than they're worth. i'm "only" a D, but what a pain! literally. and ya can't wear cute bras when you're a big girl. nor can you wear cute tops, backless tops, strapless tops....
i attract my share of "boob men" and lemme tell ya- they can have 'em.
the only problem is, they always want to pay attention to the boobs and i get nuffin' out of it.
ah well, such is life.
at least they work in my favor sometimes! my best friend and i have a joke--- "confuse 'em with the breasts." if we need to, we can always wave them in some guys face and get him all confused. they'll do just about anything at that point!
(even kiss you in the parking lot!!!! )
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Good one, WACW!
Say.... somethin' I been meanin' to ask you for awhile and keep forgetting: did you ever get the audio e-mail I sent you awhile back, "The Man Song"? I never got a response, and it MUST be because you didn't get it -- otherwise, you'd have fallen apart. It's GOOOOOOOOOD.
I sent it to our Miss Mags, but she didn't get it either; it's a real big file, and apparently her ISP has a "cut-off" point on byte size. I had to ultimately send it to her at another e-mail address, and this time she got it. She loved it and made me send it to her office so she could share it with everyone there. (What a wild and crazy office, eh?!)
I'm outa bed now and feeling much better, although lots of gas. You know, I have a feeling Steph's new doctor might have hit upon the "cause" of this IBS crap -- a problem we have with how we digest our food more than what kind of food it is? I totally ate all IBS-safe stuff yesterday; there was no reason for my early morning attack, no reason at all.
I'm thinkin' maybe it's time to just stop eating altogether, damnitalltohell ....
Worms.
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HEY!
#82491 - 06/23/04 03:53 PM
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I resemble that remark!
Actually, I think it's time we did a little spin on this topic. What is it that us FEMALES find attractive in MALES? EH? How 'bout THAT!?
First thing that attracts me is their sense of humor. Without that, they got nothin'.
BB
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Hi Sheri!! Like the pic!! Another pretty lady for the board!!
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