Bet you thought you got rid of me!
#44472 - 02/11/04 11:47 PM
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KinOz
Reged: 02/02/03
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Loc: Brisbane, Australia
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Hi everyone,
In the few fleeting spare moments I have had I have been having a quick read and trying to catch up on everyone's news.
This is what's happening for me at the moment:
Brad is home and he's a lot better. We still have some hurdles to cross but things are much improved in that department.
My step Father in Law (which sounds silly because he's been Brad's stepdad sinces he was about 2 so I normally say father in law but people get confused because Brad's dad had passed away) is still very ill. He has pancreatic cancer and is awaiting chemotherapy. He's had surgery but is so weak that he can't have the chemo yet and now he has just landed himself back in hospital with a blood clot in each leg which isn't good either.
We are taking everything one tiny step at a time. I have had no good baby news to report yet either and I'm sure the sadness I have over that is what is giving me so much trouble with the IBS.
On to a happier note, I survived a 4 day trip to Sydney for a wedding without too many hassles. I did get sick of carting Benefiber around and being limited as to where I could eat but all in all it was a success. We are planning a trip to Bali in April which I'll post more about later and I'll be asking questions of anyone who's been there!
I'd love it if everyone could give me a quick reply/update of a few sentences to let me know where they are at and what's happening in their lives if/when you get time.
I hope to be around a bit more now,
Kerrie 
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We could never be rid of you Kerrie....you're in our thoughts and prayers daily! *hugs*
I am SO GLAD things are getting better in more than one area of your life. I know we are in diff. situations regarding pregnancy...but I want to get pregnant and the docs say I'm too sick right now... On a more positive note, I just found out my brother was born through an embryon transfer. My mom had miscarriages along the way...but she was successful with him! I hope this gives you a ray of hope...
I hope I will be able to have children one day. That means I can't be on any medication...a reality that seems VERY far away for me at the moment. The docs still have no idea what's wrong with me and why I'm so sick all the time. I just pray. And cry. All my friends are now pregnant or have babies. I'm the only one. I've wanted to be a mom since I was a child. It is quite devistating...but what can I do? I know I will appreciate my children, G-d willing, when I have them so much more because I had to wait and struggle to have them! But the times when I feel so alone (I can't talk to my friends...I don't want to bring them down in their time of joy!), are just so PAINFUL!
I know our situations are different...but I am wondering if maybe we can be there for each other? You sound strong and it doesn't sound like you need the support right now...but I think I do (if you don't have time/energy right now...I completely understand!!!!).
In any case...Kerrie, it is WONDERFUL to have you back on board! We all love you here and we look forward to hearing good news from you (and bad too...but we hope not as often!)
*biggest hugs ever*
Ruchie
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Burdens and Bali
#44519 - 02/12/04 07:25 AM
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Bevvy
Reged: 11/04/03
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Wow, Kerrie! You sure have a full plate, don't you?! When I read posts like yours, I wonder how some people get so over-burdened and still manage to keep their heads above water. Good for you -- you go, Girl!
I like how you ended on a positive note. I think that's the key -- think positively. A trip to Bali is certainly something to look forward to; if you can concentrate on that, it might help you through all the other crap.
Thanks for the post -- and hope you come back to the boards a little more often.
Bev
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Welcome back Kerry!!!!!!!!
Sounds like your plate is still full, but it is nice to know your husband is doing better and you had a great trip!!
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Hey there! It's great to hear how you are as I've been thinking about how you, Brad and Harrison were doing. Hmmm, updates? I went to NZ on the holidays with my b'friend and it was unreal! Much better weather than here at the moment!
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Re: for Ruchie
#44746 - 02/13/04 04:31 AM
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JBI
Reged: 01/25/04
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Loc: BC, Canada
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Hi Ruchie,
I know it's a lot easier said than done, but don't worry too much about having a baby. My mother was told that she probably wouldn't be able to have kids, but when she was 31, she had me, then my brother 3 years later. (poor woman! :P hehe just kidding)
My Aunt wasn't able to have kids, so she and my uncle ended up adopting the cutest little boy, and they love him just the same. Probably even more.
Even though I'm not at the point where I desperately want kids (have to meet the right woman first! 'apparently' that's a requirement), I still find it gets tough when lots of friends are now getting married and starting to have kids. But still, try and stay positive about things. Just from reading the posts I can tell that you are a wonderful caring person and would make a good Mom. Good Luck!
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... did you go?
Brad is from NZ and has family in Christchurch. I haven't been there before and would like to. We are actually looking at maybe going over in September to do some ski-ing as well as see family.
I know what you mean about the weather. We just had another a/c put in so our whole house is nice and cool but being at school is murder!
Guess what else... I'm sick of waiting for a real baby so I bought a metal one. Yep .. a new car. I haven't got it yet but it's a new Mazda 3 sedan. have you seen them?
Kerrie
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How are you getting on with yopur paper?
Kerrie
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Re: I agree..
#45155 - 02/15/04 10:35 PM
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KinOz
Reged: 02/02/03
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Loc: Brisbane, Australia
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.. being positive is the key. Though at times I must admit it is extremely difficult. My Mum always says God only gives these burderns to those who have the strength to carry them so I guess that's comforting though I sure could use a rest.
A baby would sure ease the pain!!!! The other day I had a friend telling me she had seen a lot of ugly babies at the shops and I just said hey I'll take the ugliest one available I don't care so long as it is a baby!
Kerrie
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Gosh Ruchie,
I can't believe I come across as sounding strong and without need of support. Wow, I'm better at masking my feelings than I thought!
Honestly, even though I try to be positive as much as possible I'm horribly miserable, my heart is broken and my soul shattered.
I don't know if you guys have custard tarts over there but I feel like one of those. I have a crust that looks really "together" from the outside but I'm mush on the inside. Sometimes I feel like if my "crust" suffers one more chip it will completely break and fall apart!
I would be honoured to support you as much as I possibly can and would be most grateful of your support too whether it's on the boards or email (mine is : bkgarlick@gil.com.au).
It's funny because I always think you sound so strong too.
I believe what you said about a baby being all the more precious because you have to wait for it. I swear if I ever have another baby I won't sleep for months because I won't be able to take my eyes off of it. I just wouldn't be able to get enough.
Anyway, talk to me whenever you need.
Kerrie
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hi kinoz; WE never want to be rid of you! I am doung volunteer work at a local mission once a week, I take a sandwich withme because it is centered around a meal, and I can't tell what they will be having. Doing avon now to make some money and am still working out 3 x /week. I am studying up on microsoft word programs to do some work at home as a means of income as well. ALL THIS enables me to take care of myself and do what I need to do to feel good. gLAD TO HAVE YOU BACK.
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Hey there! I went to Christchurch! Wow, it's an amazing place. People say that when you see Chch, you never want to leave it and I can say that I felt that way also. It's just so breathtaking, pretty, green, full of history etc.... Nice weeping willows line the Avon River etc etc... I absolutely loved it.
Good on you for the new metal bubs!! I haven't seen the mazda's - well I"ve seen the mazda 6, but not the 3. It's great that you are treating yourself with something nice!
Where are you teaching again? How is Brad doing? I really felt for you towards the end of last year and I"m so pleased things are starting to get back on the mend.
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I've heard it's beautiful so I'm looking forward to it.
The Mazda 3 is a smaller version of the 6.
Will email you soon about the other stuff. If you don't hear from me soon could you email me your address as it may mean I can't find yours 
Kerrie
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Re: Louise..
#45489 - 02/18/04 04:01 AM
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KinOz
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.. how nice to hear about all the positive things you are doing. That's great. Thanks for your support.
Keep in touch,
Kerrie
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