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      #363672 - 02/25/11 10:56 AM
SweetTony

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I do not have alot of experience with Forums and posting and whatnot. I was wondering if it is OK to vent in this Living Room? I will be clean and nice. I have been dealing with what I believe is IBS-C for about a year. The doctor's have found nothing wrong with me after all of the tests they could come up with. I am on the suggested diet more or less and have no idea what my triggers are except for driving and the possiblity of being stuck somewhere without access to a bathroom. I am on dicyclomine and Acacia fiber. I drink Heather's peppermint tea. I STILL feel awful most of the time. Cramps and phantom urges. I have tried the audio CD's and they didn't seem to help and I am currently having accupuncture but I don't have any hope in that working. I cannot accept that I feel this bad doing all the right things AND that I am going to feel at least this bad, if not worse, for the rest of my life. I'm not going to make it. Is there no hope?

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      #363705 - 02/26/11 12:13 PM
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Hi Tony, and welcome

You're welcome to vent. The living room is generally for non-IBS topics. Most vent in the diet board if it is IBS related.

Sounds like you are trying to do a lot of things to deal with you suspected IBS C.

Speaking from experience, getting IBS under control takes a lot of time. A year to get stable would have been a dream come true! For me it was more like 2.5 years this time around - yes, you can go from perfectly fine to utter agony with IBS from time to time. Been there, done that a couple times

It's not just about finding the one thing which works for you but finding the balance of everything which together work for you. For me it was hypnosis - 3 times - so that took over a year. Diet - HUGE for me. It took me years in my teens to eliminate my trigger foods and then after 5 or 6 years stable I had to start it all over again. I kept a food diary for 3 or more years. I know my triggers now are fats, caffeine, dairy, and portion size. Yes, even portion size can affect your tum. Like Heather's books say, eat small meals more frequently and snacks in between. I haven't tried the Acacia fibre only because of where I live - difficult to get it shipped here at the time I needed it the most. (Now she has Canadian distributors though.) I've just started seeing a dr. of Chinese medicine who is also going to address my GI tract along with the other issues I'm seeing her for. Hoping it'll help - afterall, she asked me if I had tummy troubles - she could find it in my pulse!! (How cool is that!) Plus yoga and breathing techniques, trying to stay unstressed... as much as possible anyway. My whole lifestyle is very different from what I imagined it would be as a younger adult... but it's working for me. And I'm getting healthier day by day (I also had brain surgery 8 months ago... I've been through a lot!)

If I can make a suggestion, be patient. I know how hard it is. I've been unstable most of my adult life. The days which are good are a blessing. And I'm more stable now than not, but I can still have bad days for seemingly no reason.... where was I?? Be patient. Figuring out what works for you will take time and lots of it. Also, you need a proper diagnosis to rule out anything else and identify it is indeed IBS. Don't give up on things like hypnosis - like I said 3 times through for me. And keep trying the Acacia - it's not an instant fix either. Heather took years developing the diet and her products, she didn't find the solutions overnight, so you probably will not find what works overnight...

Good luck!!!

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      #363732 - 02/27/11 10:02 PM
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Re: Is it OK to vent? new
      #363746 - 02/28/11 10:46 AM
SweetTony

Reged: 11/17/10
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Patience. OK, I can do that. I had colonoscopies, endoscopies, CAT scans, blood work, etc and IBS is what was left over for an exclusionary DX. I have not been dealing with this my whole life which might be my problem. One day I was "normal" the next I was dealing with this and it hasn't stopped. I cannot accept the fact that nothing is physically wrong with me. I have given up beer, booze, fried foods, coffee, dairy, HFCS, wheats, nicotine, red meat...basically everything that gives me a reason to get up in the morning. I have not yet come to grips with the fact that I am going to be like this forever. Once I accept that...well, I will have to deal with that the day it come. Right now I am still in the "angry stage". Thanks for the response. Good luck to you as well.

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