Re: Sad Nelly
#346244 - 05/20/09 03:08 PM
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Nelly
Reged: 08/06/04
Posts: 4381
Loc: Within stray mortar fire of DC
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LM, I REALLY appreciate your post.
*2 fist pounding my heart, gangsta style* You really got me right here. 
I can really appreciate any good vibes, everyone. I'm not religious, but am seriously comsidering trying anything. BF came home and he's so relaxed I'm considering a suicide watch. His boss was an ass, but the hours he worked and the migraines he suffered for the last 6 years were not worth the treatment he got today. *sad*
~nelly~
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Well, that just plain ole sucks! I wish I had something witty to say to make you feel better but all I have to offer are lots of hugs and love! Hang in there
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Poor Nelly
#346279 - 05/21/09 07:30 PM
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Toady
Reged: 04/06/06
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Loc: A small city, Northwestern Ontario, Canada
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I don't know what to say. The job markets are so tough right now. I hope you've been able to call off the suicide watch. I hope you and the BF are managing alright and dream jobs are just around the corner.
May your luck turn around and the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow find you soon. God never closes a door without opening a window.
HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Cassandra
Live like there's no tomorrow. Love like you've never loved before.
IBS A 20+ years, Chronic Migraines, Chiari Malformation (decompressed June 22, 2010), Brachial Neuritis, and ??? the list just keeps growing, but I'm still shiny side up! 
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Hey Michele! Thank you!
I haven't seen you here in a while! How are things? I liked the pictures of the house remodel. I made my BF watch commercials for Lyrica, and now he believes there really is a thing called Fibromyalgia. Baby steps.
Oh, I also made him watch the commercial with the football player who has Crohn's Disease, and every time the guy said "I had a flare-up" I yelled "That's CODE for diarrhea!!" I'm not sure he believed me, but I asked him what he thought was a flare-up, and he couldn't answer. Ooo, he drives me nuts!
~nelly~
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Re: Poor Nelly
#346287 - 05/22/09 07:20 AM
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Nelly
Reged: 08/06/04
Posts: 4381
Loc: Within stray mortar fire of DC
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THANK YOU. I can't tell what's going on in his mind, but I know he hasn't slept in two nights. He refuses to send me his resume so I can update it. I think he's in deep denial... and it's not helping MY stress! 
There's a job fair for people with security clearances and he refuses to attend it this weekend. I could just choke him.
I keep applying online, and he hasn't hooked up my printer (still) so I can't print out my resume. I think he's sabotaging me the way he did when I was working. I don't think deep down that he wants me to succeed. I've lost jobs before because of him, and I see this pattern coming back.
Well, I fixed up my hair (made it one color, LOL!) and I've found my interview suit, which fit a lot better 20 pounds ago, but I can still pull off if I stand at an angle... Arg.
So here we go!
~nelly~
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Hey Nelly,
I'm falling asleep here, but just checked in on the boards and saw your posts. This sucks! I hope you two can find some way to be understanding with each other in the middle of all that stress and emotion. Not easy to do at all. Hang in there and good luck with everything.
ps. flare up = diarrea! Your post made me laugh out loud! He didn't know what it meant? What else could it be - that not so fresh feeling? Its either too much poop coming out, or not coming out or else cramps usually combined with one of the former - thats sort of the whole range of possibility. I certainly hope he is going to face the reality of your experience and soon.
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Nelly
I am so sorry to hear what happened to your BF and i am sorry you are oging throgh such a horrible time right now
ust remembe as so many have told you when one door closes another oneopens
Trust God, and he will help me.
believe me, I know that for sure.
I have seen so many miacles in my life, and I know God is helping us
Good luck and hang in there
Dee Dee
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I have learned that the Lord didn't do it al in one day. What makes me think I can?
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I'm so sorry for your dilemmas, Nelly! I hope everything will work out for you in the long run. I'll say it along with the rest... when one door opens....   ........ I know how it feels when someone doesn't understand the pain and "flare-ups"! Hang in there like that booger that just won't come out!  
Kappy
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I'm married and it's so wonderful!
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How the heck are ya?? I haven't heard from you in AGES!!!!! I hope you are doing well.
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Lisa, IBS-C (Vegan)
Stable since July 2007!
Mommy to Rhiannon Marie (Dec. 13, 2008)
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BF's Evil boss didn't call him for days, then they talked like he's never had the conversation. BF's job is safe for now...
We found out through back channels that they offered it to BF's assistant, who said NO WAY, so I think hte boss has come to his senses... for now.
I told him to cruise craigslist to make sure his job wasn't posted there. I'm also trying to get him to do uo his resume, but he refuses my help. Don't know what he's thinking. If it happened once, it'll happen again!!
I worked for the same complany but I was BF's boss and he hated that, so he sabotaged me and after the one contract I didn't come back to try for another. But the head boss is CRAZY and might be on drugs. That wuld account for all the profits disappearing even though BF lands these huge contracts... Follow the money, I say.
OK, enough rambling. It's 2:03am here. Better try to go to rest!
~nelly~
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