Worst week of my life need lots pf prayers
#318914 - 11/17/07 09:24 AM
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emmasmom
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Hi everyone don't know if I'll be able to finsh typing this or not but here it goes. I haven't told alot of people on here I was pregant but I was 8 weeks. Last sunday me and dh went to the er for some serious constopation prolbems i was having and while there they did a ultrasound and the said I had a miscarriage.....So I had to have a d&c done this week this week has been so horriable and I can't even think how thanksgiving going to be thats when we was going to tell everyone! I have having a very very hard time beleving in anything right now and can't even seem to get out of bed!! I don't understand why this is happening to me. I am a good person! anyway need to go....
emmasmom
sick of ibs!
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So sorry, I can't imagine how you must be feeling right now. Lots of hugs and prayers for you. Know we are thinking about you and are here for you.
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Susan
IBS-A, Gas, Pain, Reflux
"The first in time and the first in importance of the influences upon the mind is that of nature. Every day, the sun; and after sunset, night and her stars. Ever the winds blow; ever the grass grows."
Emerson, August 31, 1837
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I am so, so sorry. I will definitely keep you in my prayers as you try to heal from such a devastating loss. (((Hugs)))
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Christine
Those who can do; those who want it done better teach.
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I'm so sorry, sweetie. You're in my prayers.
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If you're not dead, you've still got time.
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I'm so very sorry you have to go through this. My heart goes out to you.
Big hugs.
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Flipada - IBS-C "It's a gas, gas, gas"
**Lauren**
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I'm so sorry. Sending lots of love your way. Know that this has nothing to do with whether or not you're a good person. You have a wonderful heart and soul.
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jaime
ibs-a (mostly d) // vegetarian
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#318999 - 11/18/07 04:04 PM
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Oh honey, I don't know you, but I will put you in my prayers. You will get through this.
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I am so sorry for you loss. I have been there 3 times before and I know how much it hurts. You will get through this but it will take time. You'll never forget but please know that it is nothing that you did or how you are as a person. Take care of yourself and you will be in my prayers.
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Oh sweetie!!
My deepest condolences and sympathies.
Big Hugs!!
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Cassandra
Live like there's no tomorrow. Love like you've never loved before.
IBS A 20+ years, Chronic Migraines, Chiari Malformation (decompressed June 22, 2010), Brachial Neuritis, and ??? the list just keeps growing, but I'm still shiny side up! 
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Oh sweetie, I am truly sorry. I have had five miscarriages myself and I do understand the pain more the most. I know from experience that nothing I can say will take away the hurt. It is going to hurt for a good long while. Talk about it when you feel like it but be prepared, those who have not gone through this pain will have a hard time understanding and some very well meaning people can say some really inconsiderate things. Love and hugs and remember to just take it one day at a time, don't worry about what others will say or think, take care of yourself.
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Taking it one day at a time.....
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I don't visit these boards much anymore but I saw your post and wanted to write.
I'm SO sorry for your loss. I've had one miscarriage at 11 weeks and it was one of the most difficult things I've ever gone through. Cry when you need to and talk to your DH when you need to. Guys really handle these things differently than women, so be prepared for that. People will also say some pretty dumb things to you right now, and try to brush them off when you can. If they've never been through it then they can never understand.
Take care of yourself!
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~jules
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I'm so sorry. I hope you can have a peaceful thxgvg and spend some time alone with your DH.
~nelly~
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Thank you all for being so nice to me when you don't know me. Still having a hard time with it all and not wanting to leave the house. I just don't understand why. please just keep me in your prayers. Thanks again for the kind words it means so much!
emmasmom
ibs-c
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I miscarried my first pregnancy about the same time you did. I think postpartum depression is a real possibility. It takes a while to get over it. Once your body heals, you will feel better. It will always be sad to you, but grieving is a natural process and it takes longer for some than others to work through that process. Hang in there!
Sending hugs and prayers!
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God is Faithful!
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I'm so sorry for everything you're going through; I just wanted to send some hugs your way and let you know I'm thinking about you!
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Lisa, IBS-C (Vegan)
Stable since July 2007!
Mommy to Rhiannon Marie (Dec. 13, 2008)
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I'm so sorry about your loss.  I don't post on the boards much anymore, but pop in every once in a while and lurk, and saw your post.
Something that helped me with my miscarriage was this site: DailyStrength.com. They have an amazing miscarriage community in which I found a lot of comfort in talking with other people.
Hope this helps and hope you and your partner find comfort somehow.
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- Jennifer
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