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Good to know. Have a good day and feel better.
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Preferably one with a firm butt and abs, and boobs that don't sag....  
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Formerly HanSolo. IBS, OCD, Bipolar, PTSD times 3.
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if I don't get to be a mom to another baby, I'd love to give the gift of life. it's always been in my heart. I mean, since I was 18 years old and knew this was a possibility.
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if there's anyone I'd do it for...it'd be you. You deserve so much happiness after all the tragedy in your life. you always inspire me.
now, you get better. 
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Thanks Cookie, you are so sweet, you're making me cry!!! Love and hugs!
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the make Michele cry contest! LOL!. but i am speaking from the heart.
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sometimes one has to face hard decisions, but it sounds like you have done this and made what will hopefully be the best choice you could have.. *HUG* I am sure you will find a child and the right one, when the time is right.. and if its in the state of MI, through social services, there aren't many charges at all unless you are looking for a newborn... the state eats the costs to get the kids out of the system..
Amie
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Thanks Amie. I am struggling a bit right now as I was pregnant with my twin girls this time last year, I'm really missing them. However, I know I need to get well before I do anything else. The mtx injections seem to be going relatively ok for now. 
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I'm so sorry you are having such a rough time. {{{{hugs}}}}}. And I'm sorry that I've haven't been here for you lately. You have always been there for me. {{{{hugs}}}}}. You've got so much on your "plate" right now. I hope all goes well for you. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong!
Here's my favorite quote. It's helped me get through some difficult times.
"When you come to the edge of all the light you know, and are about to step off into the darkness of the unknown, faith is knowing one of two things will happen: There will be something solid to stand on, or you will be taught how to fly." ~Barbara J. Winter
Spread your wings and fly. {{{{hugs}}}}
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trust me, I can understand.. I still think about the babies I lost though it was years ago and we made the decision to not try again several years back... it never goes away completely, but it does become less of an issue as the years pass.. a friend who lost a baby 25 years ago told me that this was the first year she didn't mourn him on the day he died as the foremost thought on that day... if her husband hadn't pointed out the date she would have passed it like another day.. so there is hope, though it does take a long time...
And for now- focus on getting better and healthy and then it will be time to re-evaluate and make decisions from another perspective.. think about it this way- would you be able to care for an infant/toddler (or 2!) at this point with everything else going on? in some ways its better because you can heal and learn how to adapt better BEFORE bringing a child into your life..
Amie
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