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Thoughts and Prayers Needed for Shell's Hubby
      #269167 - 06/13/06 12:39 PM
Jennifer Rose

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Poor Shane (Shell's hubby) dislocated his arm. He'll be going into surgery later tonight to get it fixed so any thoughts and prayers would be greatly appreciated!

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Re: Thoughts and Prayers Needed for Shell's Hubby new
      #269170 - 06/13/06 12:41 PM
Angela E.

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Oh no! Thoughts and prayers with you and hubby Shell! I hope everything goes ok!!

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Poor Shane.. new
      #269180 - 06/13/06 01:28 PM
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sounds painful I'm sure he'll be back right as rain in no time

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Re: Thoughts and Prayers Needed for Shell's Hubby new
      #269189 - 06/13/06 01:48 PM
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Ouch!!! Sending Get Weal Soon thoughts ASAP!!!

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update new
      #269239 - 06/13/06 06:31 PM
Shell Marr

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Thanks Jen...

He is in surgery now...I just ran home to get his eyeballs (glasses) a few other items he requested and a bite to eat.... they fixed the dislocation about 2 hours after we got to the ER (which was 7:15am)... he does not remember ANY OF THAT part... he fractured (sp?) and shattered a bunch of stuff in the arm at the elbow and it is now being opened up and "replaced" the parts that shattered could not be saved. He will hopefully come home wed evening... and will not go back to work until Monday at the soonest.... 6-8 weeks before he can bike (that is his big concern) LOL The best part.... it is his left arm and he is left handed... So, guess I'll be playing Mrs. Nurse for a week or so... poor guy...

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Re: update new
      #269252 - 06/13/06 07:17 PM
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yikes! What happened? Hope that he heals quickly!!

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Ouch! new
      #269264 - 06/13/06 08:19 PM
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I'm wishing Shane a speedy recovery!

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Re: Poor Shane.. new
      #269266 - 06/13/06 08:28 PM
bubbagirl

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thoughts & prayers for both of you nt

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Update #2 new
      #269299 - 06/13/06 11:57 PM
Shell Marr

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Just walked in the door (11:50pm)... that was so hard leaving him there at the hospital.... I know he is totally drugged and probably will not even remember me saying goodnight.... there was a message on the home machine from the Dr saying he would be in to Shane between 6:45-7AM....so I guess I better get my butt to bed so I can be there... I had planned on getting up at 6:30am...oh well...my baby is worth it. They replaced the radial head and repaired the ligament... he had a block put in so he can't feel any pain (it's numb) from the shoulder down... that could last up to 12 hours... so about 5:30am... I was able to spoon feed him some broth & Jell-O... then he was READY for sleepytime... he has been out pretty good since then (10:30pm).

OK... off to catch some ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzz.....

Thanks everyone for your well wishes....I will let him know....

xoxo

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Thanks Jen...

He is in surgery now...I just ran home to get his eyeballs (glasses) a few other items he requested and a bite to eat.... they fixed the dislocation about 2 hours after we got to the ER (which was 7:15am)... he does not remember ANY OF THAT part... he fractured (sp?) and shattered a bunch of stuff in the arm at the elbow and it is now being opened up and "replaced" the parts that shattered could not be saved. He will hopefully come home wed evening... and will not go back to work until Monday at the soonest.... 6-8 weeks before he can bike (that is his big concern) LOL The best part.... it is his left arm and he is left handed... So, guess I'll be playing Mrs. Nurse for a week or so... poor guy...




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Yikes! Owwie new
      #269300 - 06/14/06 12:03 AM
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well, you give your hubs a big ....well, leg hug... Poor guy. Yowza I can't imagine the pain. Good that he's got drugs for now!!

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eek, *HUG* new
      #269308 - 06/14/06 04:51 AM
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I hope its all better soon and with a minimum of paina dn mess.. thats NEVER fun!

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Re: Yikes! Owwie new
      #269323 - 06/14/06 07:41 AM
Nelly

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Ow that hurts. I crashed my motorcycle in Thailand last week and dislocated my right shoulder too. NOT a fun injury. All my best to the both of you--

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Update #3 new
      #269489 - 06/14/06 06:14 PM
Shell Marr

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He is home and well medicated...NOW...he was in a lot of pain a few minutes ago.... sounds like his summer "activities" are over for this season anyway... He has a follow up appointment with the Ortho Surgeon on Friday....more details & pics to follow later..... we are both just gonna rest while the meds are workin for him....

Thanks again everyone!!


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Just walked in the door (11:50pm)... that was so hard leaving him there at the hospital.... I know he is totally drugged and probably will not even remember me saying goodnight.... there was a message on the home machine from the Dr saying he would be in to Shane between 6:45-7AM....so I guess I better get my butt to bed so I can be there... I had planned on getting up at 6:30am...oh well...my baby is worth it. They replaced the radial head and repaired the ligament... he had a block put in so he can't feel any pain (it's numb) from the shoulder down... that could last up to 12 hours... so about 5:30am... I was able to spoon feed him some broth & Jell-O... then he was READY for sleepytime... he has been out pretty good since then (10:30pm).

OK... off to catch some ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzz.....

Thanks everyone for your well wishes....I will let him know....

xoxo

Quote:

Thanks Jen...

He is in surgery now...I just ran home to get his eyeballs (glasses) a few other items he requested and a bite to eat.... they fixed the dislocation about 2 hours after we got to the ER (which was 7:15am)... he does not remember ANY OF THAT part... he fractured (sp?) and shattered a bunch of stuff in the arm at the elbow and it is now being opened up and "replaced" the parts that shattered could not be saved. He will hopefully come home wed evening... and will not go back to work until Monday at the soonest.... 6-8 weeks before he can bike (that is his big concern) LOL The best part.... it is his left arm and he is left handed... So, guess I'll be playing Mrs. Nurse for a week or so... poor guy...







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Re: Update #3 new
      #269571 - 06/15/06 07:00 AM
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Hugs and love to you both.
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Re: Update #3 new
      #269581 - 06/15/06 07:46 AM
michele

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I hope he's feeling better soon! Did I miss the story on how this happened?

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Bummer!! new
      #269584 - 06/15/06 07:52 AM
epa_ginger

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What a crappy time for this to happen! Not that anytime is good really. I hope he can still enjoy his summer.....(Thank goodness for drugs, huh?)

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Update #4 & WHAT Happened.... new
      #269643 - 06/15/06 11:18 AM
Shell Marr

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Well..I guess I should start with WHAT happened!?!?! LOL

Shane gotten into his car Tues morning and put his paper coffee cup into the holder..he then saw his paper cup from Monday morning on the floor... he decided to take it to the dumpstar that is right near our cars. On his return to the car, he twisted his right ankle.... he then put out his left arm to stop the fall... his palm hit first then he slid on his forearm and landed HARD on his elbow...which was the cause of the major injury and dislocation of the elbow. A neighbor saw him and asked if he could help... he had him call me upstairs... (I was in a towel out of the shower and my hair was in a towel too).... I put on pants, shirt and slippers and came running down NOT KNOWING how bad it was... Shane heard me coming and yelled, "honey it's broken I need to get to a hospital" our eyes connected....I told him I would be right back...ran upstairs, got my shoes, bra, & purse... dropped the towel and ran back out.... the neighbor helped him into the passenger seat by that time... we both thanked him...and off we went....
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I'm at work right now.... I called to check on him at 10am and made sure he got his pain pills in him..... I'll go home right after work....but he did request one of those "stress balls" to work his left hand....so, I'll grab that first. I will take him in the morning to his appointment.

I'll update ya all if anything exciting happens..... oh, and I have some great "high" pics of him too that I need to get posted...LOL

P.S. after all that... he never did even get one sip of coffee!!

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He is home and well medicated...NOW...he was in a lot of pain a few minutes ago.... sounds like his summer "activities" are over for this season anyway... He has a follow up appointment with the Ortho Surgeon on Friday....more details & pics to follow later..... we are both just gonna rest while the meds are workin for him....

Thanks again everyone!!


Quote:

Just walked in the door (11:50pm)... that was so hard leaving him there at the hospital.... I know he is totally drugged and probably will not even remember me saying goodnight.... there was a message on the home machine from the Dr saying he would be in to Shane between 6:45-7AM....so I guess I better get my butt to bed so I can be there... I had planned on getting up at 6:30am...oh well...my baby is worth it. They replaced the radial head and repaired the ligament... he had a block put in so he can't feel any pain (it's numb) from the shoulder down... that could last up to 12 hours... so about 5:30am... I was able to spoon feed him some broth & Jell-O... then he was READY for sleepytime... he has been out pretty good since then (10:30pm).

OK... off to catch some ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzz.....

Thanks everyone for your well wishes....I will let him know....

xoxo

Quote:

Thanks Jen...

He is in surgery now...I just ran home to get his eyeballs (glasses) a few other items he requested and a bite to eat.... they fixed the dislocation about 2 hours after we got to the ER (which was 7:15am)... he does not remember ANY OF THAT part... he fractured (sp?) and shattered a bunch of stuff in the arm at the elbow and it is now being opened up and "replaced" the parts that shattered could not be saved. He will hopefully come home wed evening... and will not go back to work until Monday at the soonest.... 6-8 weeks before he can bike (that is his big concern) LOL The best part.... it is his left arm and he is left handed... So, guess I'll be playing Mrs. Nurse for a week or so... poor guy...










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Re: Update #4 & WHAT Happened.... new
      #269661 - 06/15/06 12:24 PM
michele

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Oh my, sounds like a terrible fall. Poor guy! Good thing he's got you to take care of him!!

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Re: Update #4 & WHAT Happened.... new
      #269676 - 06/15/06 01:59 PM
Jennifer Rose

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I'll update ya all if anything exciting happens..... oh, and I have some great "high" pics of him too that I need to get posted...LOL




The one you sent me via phone was hillarious! I was showing it to Jason and was like, "Oh I'm sure Shane is loving getting his picture taken in the hospital when he's all laid up.." and Jason goes, "Well, I don't think he's too bad since he's talking on his cell phone in the hospital." LMAO! I had to look at it closely to see the cell phone!

Hope Shane is feeling better!

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Re: Update #4 & WHAT Happened.... new
      #269684 - 06/15/06 03:13 PM
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LOL Yes, he was talking to his Mommy.. it was long distance, so we could not use the phone in the room (local calls only)... that was taken shortly after he was admited. I've got a really good one from last night at home....he looks so high...he can hardly keeps his eyes open.....

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I'll update ya all if anything exciting happens..... oh, and I have some great "high" pics of him too that I need to get posted...LOL




The one you sent me via phone was hillarious! I was showing it to Jason and was like, "Oh I'm sure Shane is loving getting his picture taken in the hospital when he's all laid up.." and Jason goes, "Well, I don't think he's too bad since he's talking on his cell phone in the hospital." LMAO! I had to look at it closely to see the cell phone!

Hope Shane is feeling better!




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Re: Update #4 & WHAT Happened.... new
      #269687 - 06/15/06 03:24 PM
Jennifer Rose

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I'd offer to buy the extra pills of whatever he is on.. but I think I'll keep my drug dealing off the boards. LOL


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LOL Yes, he was talking to his Mommy.. it was long distance, so we could not use the phone in the room (local calls only)... that was taken shortly after he was admited. I've got a really good one from last night at home....he looks so high...he can hardly keeps his eyes open.....

Quote:

Quote:

I'll update ya all if anything exciting happens..... oh, and I have some great "high" pics of him too that I need to get posted...LOL




The one you sent me via phone was hillarious! I was showing it to Jason and was like, "Oh I'm sure Shane is loving getting his picture taken in the hospital when he's all laid up.." and Jason goes, "Well, I don't think he's too bad since he's talking on his cell phone in the hospital." LMAO! I had to look at it closely to see the cell phone!

Hope Shane is feeling better!







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Re: Update #4 & WHAT Happened.... new
      #269689 - 06/15/06 03:29 PM
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I enjoyed the pic as well, although I didn't notice him on the phone till you guys just pointed it out! lol I just thought he was really drugged up and you were snapping shots of him and sending them off!

At least I got the story now....knowing you two, I thought it was something else!

Hope he's feeling better soon!

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LOL Yes, he was talking to his Mommy.. it was long distance, so we could not use the phone in the room (local calls only)... that was taken shortly after he was admited. I've got a really good one from last night at home....he looks so high...he can hardly keeps his eyes open.....

Quote:

Quote:

I'll update ya all if anything exciting happens..... oh, and I have some great "high" pics of him too that I need to get posted...LOL




The one you sent me via phone was hillarious! I was showing it to Jason and was like, "Oh I'm sure Shane is loving getting his picture taken in the hospital when he's all laid up.." and Jason goes, "Well, I don't think he's too bad since he's talking on his cell phone in the hospital." LMAO! I had to look at it closely to see the cell phone!

Hope Shane is feeling better!







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Re: Update #4 & WHAT Happened.... new
      #269693 - 06/15/06 03:41 PM
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At least I got the story now....knowing you two, I thought it was something else!




LMAO! You know what is sad? I thought the same thing! Especially when she didn't explain what happened right away...

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Re: Update #4 & WHAT Happened.... new
      #269708 - 06/15/06 04:51 PM
barbie

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Poor Shane. I hope he will be as good as new very soon.
I'm sure you will be a wonderful nurse! Give him my best wishes for a speedy recovery.

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Re: Update #4 & WHAT Happened.... new
      #269715 - 06/15/06 05:11 PM
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Sending wishes to Shane on a speedy recovery and to you Shell for being his nurse and loving wife. Take care of both of you's. Sue

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Re: Thoughts and Prayers Needed for Shell's Hubby new
      #269719 - 06/15/06 05:44 PM
Janey

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Shell,

I am so sorry to hear about Shane's fall. Hard to believe that such a simple fall could cause so much damage. I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. Please give him my best and I hope he feels better soon.

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Re: Update#4 Glad he's home. Much easier to deal with for him in his own home nt new
      #269728 - 06/15/06 06:03 PM
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Update #5 new
      #269858 - 06/16/06 02:42 PM
Shell Marr

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He took a shower today!! WWoohhoo!! He was so happy..we had his arm in a garbage bag...but still...

Went to the DR this morning... got to see the x-rays and the insision....his DR is FABULOUS!! We got copies of the x-rays that I will scan it and post this weekend with the other "high" pics...hehehe

I'm at work now for a few hours... this morning took a lot out of Shane so he is sleeping now... poor guy got car sick both coming and going to the DR....I think it is the meds...he said it felt like a never-ending roller coaster ride....

I'll update you all again this weekend....

Quote:

Well..I guess I should start with WHAT happened!?!?! LOL

Shane gotten into his car Tues morning and put his paper coffee cup into the holder..he then saw his paper cup from Monday morning on the floor... he decided to take it to the dumpstar that is right near our cars. On his return to the car, he twisted his right ankle.... he then put out his left arm to stop the fall... his palm hit first then he slid on his forearm and landed HARD on his elbow...which was the cause of the major injury and dislocation of the elbow. A neighbor saw him and asked if he could help... he had him call me upstairs... (I was in a towel out of the shower and my hair was in a towel too).... I put on pants, shirt and slippers and came running down NOT KNOWING how bad it was... Shane heard me coming and yelled, "honey it's broken I need to get to a hospital" our eyes connected....I told him I would be right back...ran upstairs, got my shoes, bra, & purse... dropped the towel and ran back out.... the neighbor helped him into the passenger seat by that time... we both thanked him...and off we went....
*************
I'm at work right now.... I called to check on him at 10am and made sure he got his pain pills in him..... I'll go home right after work....but he did request one of those "stress balls" to work his left hand....so, I'll grab that first. I will take him in the morning to his appointment.

I'll update ya all if anything exciting happens..... oh, and I have some great "high" pics of him too that I need to get posted...LOL

P.S. after all that... he never did even get one sip of coffee!!

Quote:

He is home and well medicated...NOW...he was in a lot of pain a few minutes ago.... sounds like his summer "activities" are over for this season anyway... He has a follow up appointment with the Ortho Surgeon on Friday....more details & pics to follow later..... we are both just gonna rest while the meds are workin for him....

Thanks again everyone!!


Quote:

Just walked in the door (11:50pm)... that was so hard leaving him there at the hospital.... I know he is totally drugged and probably will not even remember me saying goodnight.... there was a message on the home machine from the Dr saying he would be in to Shane between 6:45-7AM....so I guess I better get my butt to bed so I can be there... I had planned on getting up at 6:30am...oh well...my baby is worth it. They replaced the radial head and repaired the ligament... he had a block put in so he can't feel any pain (it's numb) from the shoulder down... that could last up to 12 hours... so about 5:30am... I was able to spoon feed him some broth & Jell-O... then he was READY for sleepytime... he has been out pretty good since then (10:30pm).

OK... off to catch some ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzz.....

Thanks everyone for your well wishes....I will let him know....

xoxo

Quote:

Thanks Jen...

He is in surgery now...I just ran home to get his eyeballs (glasses) a few other items he requested and a bite to eat.... they fixed the dislocation about 2 hours after we got to the ER (which was 7:15am)... he does not remember ANY OF THAT part... he fractured (sp?) and shattered a bunch of stuff in the arm at the elbow and it is now being opened up and "replaced" the parts that shattered could not be saved. He will hopefully come home wed evening... and will not go back to work until Monday at the soonest.... 6-8 weeks before he can bike (that is his big concern) LOL The best part.... it is his left arm and he is left handed... So, guess I'll be playing Mrs. Nurse for a week or so... poor guy...













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Re: Update #4 & WHAT Happened.... new
      #270019 - 06/18/06 06:24 AM
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We just know our Shell & Shane too well!

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At least I got the story now....knowing you two, I thought it was something else!




LMAO! You know what is sad? I thought the same thing! Especially when she didn't explain what happened right away...




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Re: Update #4 & WHAT Happened.... new
      #270023 - 06/18/06 06:55 AM
Shell Marr

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LOL


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We just know our Shell & Shane too well!

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At least I got the story now....knowing you two, I thought it was something else!




LMAO! You know what is sad? I thought the same thing! Especially when she didn't explain what happened right away...







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Update #6 PICTURES new
      #270028 - 06/18/06 07:39 AM
Shell Marr

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If anyone wants to see the sitches... then email me...I did not want to post them here and upset someones tummy....

Quote:

He took a shower today!! WWoohhoo!! He was so happy..we had his arm in a garbage bag...but still...

Went to the DR this morning... got to see the x-rays and the insision....his DR is FABULOUS!! We got copies of the x-rays that I will scan it and post this weekend with the other "high" pics...hehehe

I'm at work now for a few hours... this morning took a lot out of Shane so he is sleeping now... poor guy got car sick both coming and going to the DR....I think it is the meds...he said it felt like a never-ending roller coaster ride....

I'll update you all again this weekend....

Quote:

Well..I guess I should start with WHAT happened!?!?! LOL

Shane gotten into his car Tues morning and put his paper coffee cup into the holder..he then saw his paper cup from Monday morning on the floor... he decided to take it to the dumpstar that is right near our cars. On his return to the car, he twisted his right ankle.... he then put out his left arm to stop the fall... his palm hit first then he slid on his forearm and landed HARD on his elbow...which was the cause of the major injury and dislocation of the elbow. A neighbor saw him and asked if he could help... he had him call me upstairs... (I was in a towel out of the shower and my hair was in a towel too).... I put on pants, shirt and slippers and came running down NOT KNOWING how bad it was... Shane heard me coming and yelled, "honey it's broken I need to get to a hospital" our eyes connected....I told him I would be right back...ran upstairs, got my shoes, bra, & purse... dropped the towel and ran back out.... the neighbor helped him into the passenger seat by that time... we both thanked him...and off we went....
*************
I'm at work right now.... I called to check on him at 10am and made sure he got his pain pills in him..... I'll go home right after work....but he did request one of those "stress balls" to work his left hand....so, I'll grab that first. I will take him in the morning to his appointment.

I'll update ya all if anything exciting happens..... oh, and I have some great "high" pics of him too that I need to get posted...LOL

P.S. after all that... he never did even get one sip of coffee!!

Quote:

He is home and well medicated...NOW...he was in a lot of pain a few minutes ago.... sounds like his summer "activities" are over for this season anyway... He has a follow up appointment with the Ortho Surgeon on Friday....more details & pics to follow later..... we are both just gonna rest while the meds are workin for him....

Thanks again everyone!!


Quote:

Just walked in the door (11:50pm)... that was so hard leaving him there at the hospital.... I know he is totally drugged and probably will not even remember me saying goodnight.... there was a message on the home machine from the Dr saying he would be in to Shane between 6:45-7AM....so I guess I better get my butt to bed so I can be there... I had planned on getting up at 6:30am...oh well...my baby is worth it. They replaced the radial head and repaired the ligament... he had a block put in so he can't feel any pain (it's numb) from the shoulder down... that could last up to 12 hours... so about 5:30am... I was able to spoon feed him some broth & Jell-O... then he was READY for sleepytime... he has been out pretty good since then (10:30pm).

OK... off to catch some ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzz.....

Thanks everyone for your well wishes....I will let him know....

xoxo

Quote:

Thanks Jen...

He is in surgery now...I just ran home to get his eyeballs (glasses) a few other items he requested and a bite to eat.... they fixed the dislocation about 2 hours after we got to the ER (which was 7:15am)... he does not remember ANY OF THAT part... he fractured (sp?) and shattered a bunch of stuff in the arm at the elbow and it is now being opened up and "replaced" the parts that shattered could not be saved. He will hopefully come home wed evening... and will not go back to work until Monday at the soonest.... 6-8 weeks before he can bike (that is his big concern) LOL The best part.... it is his left arm and he is left handed... So, guess I'll be playing Mrs. Nurse for a week or so... poor guy...
















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Re: Update #6 PICTURES new
      #270033 - 06/18/06 07:59 AM
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Wow Shell! Nasty breaks!! Sounds like you are taking awesome care of him, just don't forget to still take care of yourself! Once he is healed he'll be the bionic man!!
Take Care!!! Both of you!

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Re: Update #6 PICTURES new
      #270037 - 06/18/06 09:18 AM
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Shell,

Unbelievable that all happened with a fall. Wow, it shows you how much we take for granted in our day to day life.

He looks good though even after all he has been through. I am sure it is the great home nursing care!

Please tell Shane that I hope he is feeling better.

Love your new picture!

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Jeez Louise! new
      #270056 - 06/18/06 11:58 AM
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Hey Shell and Shane!

I am so sorry I didn't see this post before now, how awful!
I am glad that you (Shane) seem to be doing better now, but that looks like a terrible fall you took, holy moses!

Glad that you made it through surgery okay, those pictures look kinda scary.. the parts I can understand anyway, hee hee.

Hope the pain medication treats him nicely, keep us updated!

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Re: Update #6 PICTURES new
      #270070 - 06/18/06 02:36 PM
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Man, he looks whacked.
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Re: Update #6 PICTURES new
      #270087 - 06/18/06 06:06 PM
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OMG!! Poor guy. I just know he must still be in alot of pain. It'll take a good while for all of THAT to heal. The pics are awsome! Prayers and wishes for a complete recovery (however, I can see alot of rehab for this injury). Barb

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Thank you all so much new
      #270180 - 06/19/06 09:21 PM
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Thanks to everyone who sent well wishes. Im going to try to go back to work tomorrow as the pain is controlled w/out narcotics now. It should be interesting as much of my job is keyboarding and I'm not much of a one handed typist (Jennifer, Melissa/Mikey, Kandee, Dont go there!). The whole drama will be documented at www.shanemarr.net/serendipity for those who wish to follow it. Thanks again for such an incredible outpouring, I really appeciate it! Shane

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Re: Thank you all so much new
      #270203 - 06/20/06 07:48 AM
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Glad to see you are on the mend!!

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he made it new
      #270207 - 06/20/06 08:14 AM
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He just called to say he made it to work ok....does not know HOW he is gonna work... but he is there! LOL

Quote:

Thanks to everyone who sent well wishes. Im going to try to go back to work tomorrow as the pain is controlled w/out narcotics now. It should be interesting as much of my job is keyboarding and I'm not much of a one handed typist (Jennifer, Melissa/Mikey, Kandee, Dont go there!). The whole drama will be documented at www.shanemarr.net/serendipity for those who wish to follow it. Thanks again for such an incredible outpouring, I really appeciate it! Shane




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Re: Thank you all so much new
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It should be interesting as much of my job is keyboarding and I'm not much of a one handed typist (Jennifer, Melissa/Mikey, Kandee, Dont go there!).




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Re: Thank you all so much new
      #270230 - 06/20/06 10:52 AM
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I was wondering why he was smiling when he was typing this...I just figured it was the meds....LOL

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It should be interesting as much of my job is keyboarding and I'm not much of a one handed typist (Jennifer, Melissa/Mikey, Kandee, Dont go there!).




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going home new
      #270247 - 06/20/06 01:53 PM
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He just called to say that he is going home... they are MAKING him go home... they told him he was not looking really good. Heck he has been awake 8 hours already...that is about 5 more so far then he has done in a long time... When he gets home he can take the "GOOD" pills and get some rest.... cuz after dinner is the whole helping him shower (with his arm in a garbage bag and being held up by my yoga strap in the form of a sling) and changing of the dressings and exercises... so he needs to save up some energy for that.

Quote:

He just called to say he made it to work ok....does not know HOW he is gonna work... but he is there! LOL

Quote:

Thanks to everyone who sent well wishes. Im going to try to go back to work tomorrow as the pain is controlled w/out narcotics now. It should be interesting as much of my job is keyboarding and I'm not much of a one handed typist (Jennifer, Melissa/Mikey, Kandee, Dont go there!). The whole drama will be documented at www.shanemarr.net/serendipity for those who wish to follow it. Thanks again for such an incredible outpouring, I really appeciate it! Shane







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Re: Thank you all so much new
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Quote:

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It should be interesting as much of my job is keyboarding and I'm not much of a one handed typist (Jennifer, Melissa/Mikey, Kandee, Dont go there!).




Heh.. heh.. already thought it.




Ditto! hehe

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Update #7 new
      #270568 - 06/22/06 01:16 PM
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Below is a copy of an email that Shane just sent to his DR office....

I'm afraid it might be a blood clot....

Good afternoon! I have, for lack of a better description, a lump on my arm. It is located on the underside of the arm between the upper and lower straps on my brace. Its about 1/2 the size of a golf ball, hard to the touch, mildly sesetive to the touch, and the prettiest of purple, surrounded by a sea of bright yellow. It almost feels like a sunburn.

I wouldnt be concerned except it is nowhere near my incisions or the injury and appears to be getting worse. I see you folks on Monday, is this something that I should expect and you can check out then, or should it give me a more urgent concern? Other than that, I feel fantastic!
Shane




Quote:

















If anyone wants to see the sitches... then email me...I did not want to post them here and upset someones tummy....

Quote:

He took a shower today!! WWoohhoo!! He was so happy..we had his arm in a garbage bag...but still...

Went to the DR this morning... got to see the x-rays and the insision....his DR is FABULOUS!! We got copies of the x-rays that I will scan it and post this weekend with the other "high" pics...hehehe

I'm at work now for a few hours... this morning took a lot out of Shane so he is sleeping now... poor guy got car sick both coming and going to the DR....I think it is the meds...he said it felt like a never-ending roller coaster ride....

I'll update you all again this weekend....

Quote:

Well..I guess I should start with WHAT happened!?!?! LOL

Shane gotten into his car Tues morning and put his paper coffee cup into the holder..he then saw his paper cup from Monday morning on the floor... he decided to take it to the dumpstar that is right near our cars. On his return to the car, he twisted his right ankle.... he then put out his left arm to stop the fall... his palm hit first then he slid on his forearm and landed HARD on his elbow...which was the cause of the major injury and dislocation of the elbow. A neighbor saw him and asked if he could help... he had him call me upstairs... (I was in a towel out of the shower and my hair was in a towel too).... I put on pants, shirt and slippers and came running down NOT KNOWING how bad it was... Shane heard me coming and yelled, "honey it's broken I need to get to a hospital" our eyes connected....I told him I would be right back...ran upstairs, got my shoes, bra, & purse... dropped the towel and ran back out.... the neighbor helped him into the passenger seat by that time... we both thanked him...and off we went....
*************
I'm at work right now.... I called to check on him at 10am and made sure he got his pain pills in him..... I'll go home right after work....but he did request one of those "stress balls" to work his left hand....so, I'll grab that first. I will take him in the morning to his appointment.

I'll update ya all if anything exciting happens..... oh, and I have some great "high" pics of him too that I need to get posted...LOL

P.S. after all that... he never did even get one sip of coffee!!

Quote:

He is home and well medicated...NOW...he was in a lot of pain a few minutes ago.... sounds like his summer "activities" are over for this season anyway... He has a follow up appointment with the Ortho Surgeon on Friday....more details & pics to follow later..... we are both just gonna rest while the meds are workin for him....

Thanks again everyone!!


Quote:

Just walked in the door (11:50pm)... that was so hard leaving him there at the hospital.... I know he is totally drugged and probably will not even remember me saying goodnight.... there was a message on the home machine from the Dr saying he would be in to Shane between 6:45-7AM....so I guess I better get my butt to bed so I can be there... I had planned on getting up at 6:30am...oh well...my baby is worth it. They replaced the radial head and repaired the ligament... he had a block put in so he can't feel any pain (it's numb) from the shoulder down... that could last up to 12 hours... so about 5:30am... I was able to spoon feed him some broth & Jell-O... then he was READY for sleepytime... he has been out pretty good since then (10:30pm).

OK... off to catch some ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzz.....

Thanks everyone for your well wishes....I will let him know....

xoxo

Quote:

Thanks Jen...

He is in surgery now...I just ran home to get his eyeballs (glasses) a few other items he requested and a bite to eat.... they fixed the dislocation about 2 hours after we got to the ER (which was 7:15am)... he does not remember ANY OF THAT part... he fractured (sp?) and shattered a bunch of stuff in the arm at the elbow and it is now being opened up and "replaced" the parts that shattered could not be saved. He will hopefully come home wed evening... and will not go back to work until Monday at the soonest.... 6-8 weeks before he can bike (that is his big concern) LOL The best part.... it is his left arm and he is left handed... So, guess I'll be playing Mrs. Nurse for a week or so... poor guy...



















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Update #8 new
      #270593 - 06/22/06 03:45 PM
Shell Marr

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Yeah.... not anything we need to worry about it... we will do as she suggests below!

Hi Shane, glad to hear that you are surviving! From my visualization of
your description it sounds like you have accumulated some swelling
between the upper straps of your elbow brace. When swelling does not
"move out" of your extremity it begins to consolidate into a firm mass.
This sounds like what you might be experiencing. My suggestion would be
to do some heat contrast over that area. Put warm heat over your arm
for 5 min then place a bag of ice (or frozen peas) over the area for 5
min. Repeat 3 times. Try to get at least two cycles in per day. The
hot stimulates blood flow to the area then the ice constricts the
vessels to push out old swelling. It works pretty well. As long as you
are not having any change in sensation along your arm or hand I would
not worry! Call if you have anymore questions, otherwise we'll see you
Monday.

Jenn


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Below is a copy of an email that Shane just sent to his DR office....

I'm afraid it might be a blood clot....

Good afternoon! I have, for lack of a better description, a lump on my arm. It is located on the underside of the arm between the upper and lower straps on my brace. Its about 1/2 the size of a golf ball, hard to the touch, mildly sesetive to the touch, and the prettiest of purple, surrounded by a sea of bright yellow. It almost feels like a sunburn.

I wouldnt be concerned except it is nowhere near my incisions or the injury and appears to be getting worse. I see you folks on Monday, is this something that I should expect and you can check out then, or should it give me a more urgent concern? Other than that, I feel fantastic!
Shane




Quote:

















If anyone wants to see the sitches... then email me...I did not want to post them here and upset someones tummy....

Quote:

He took a shower today!! WWoohhoo!! He was so happy..we had his arm in a garbage bag...but still...

Went to the DR this morning... got to see the x-rays and the insision....his DR is FABULOUS!! We got copies of the x-rays that I will scan it and post this weekend with the other "high" pics...hehehe

I'm at work now for a few hours... this morning took a lot out of Shane so he is sleeping now... poor guy got car sick both coming and going to the DR....I think it is the meds...he said it felt like a never-ending roller coaster ride....

I'll update you all again this weekend....

Quote:

Well..I guess I should start with WHAT happened!?!?! LOL

Shane gotten into his car Tues morning and put his paper coffee cup into the holder..he then saw his paper cup from Monday morning on the floor... he decided to take it to the dumpstar that is right near our cars. On his return to the car, he twisted his right ankle.... he then put out his left arm to stop the fall... his palm hit first then he slid on his forearm and landed HARD on his elbow...which was the cause of the major injury and dislocation of the elbow. A neighbor saw him and asked if he could help... he had him call me upstairs... (I was in a towel out of the shower and my hair was in a towel too).... I put on pants, shirt and slippers and came running down NOT KNOWING how bad it was... Shane heard me coming and yelled, "honey it's broken I need to get to a hospital" our eyes connected....I told him I would be right back...ran upstairs, got my shoes, bra, & purse... dropped the towel and ran back out.... the neighbor helped him into the passenger seat by that time... we both thanked him...and off we went....
*************
I'm at work right now.... I called to check on him at 10am and made sure he got his pain pills in him..... I'll go home right after work....but he did request one of those "stress balls" to work his left hand....so, I'll grab that first. I will take him in the morning to his appointment.

I'll update ya all if anything exciting happens..... oh, and I have some great "high" pics of him too that I need to get posted...LOL

P.S. after all that... he never did even get one sip of coffee!!

Quote:

He is home and well medicated...NOW...he was in a lot of pain a few minutes ago.... sounds like his summer "activities" are over for this season anyway... He has a follow up appointment with the Ortho Surgeon on Friday....more details & pics to follow later..... we are both just gonna rest while the meds are workin for him....

Thanks again everyone!!


Quote:

Just walked in the door (11:50pm)... that was so hard leaving him there at the hospital.... I know he is totally drugged and probably will not even remember me saying goodnight.... there was a message on the home machine from the Dr saying he would be in to Shane between 6:45-7AM....so I guess I better get my butt to bed so I can be there... I had planned on getting up at 6:30am...oh well...my baby is worth it. They replaced the radial head and repaired the ligament... he had a block put in so he can't feel any pain (it's numb) from the shoulder down... that could last up to 12 hours... so about 5:30am... I was able to spoon feed him some broth & Jell-O... then he was READY for sleepytime... he has been out pretty good since then (10:30pm).

OK... off to catch some ZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZzzz.....

Thanks everyone for your well wishes....I will let him know....

xoxo

Quote:

Thanks Jen...

He is in surgery now...I just ran home to get his eyeballs (glasses) a few other items he requested and a bite to eat.... they fixed the dislocation about 2 hours after we got to the ER (which was 7:15am)... he does not remember ANY OF THAT part... he fractured (sp?) and shattered a bunch of stuff in the arm at the elbow and it is now being opened up and "replaced" the parts that shattered could not be saved. He will hopefully come home wed evening... and will not go back to work until Monday at the soonest.... 6-8 weeks before he can bike (that is his big concern) LOL The best part.... it is his left arm and he is left handed... So, guess I'll be playing Mrs. Nurse for a week or so... poor guy...






















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