My dd's heart is broken,she's been booted out of a wedding party.
#267602 - 06/04/06 08:14 PM
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countrygirl
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Loc: Wisconsin, USA
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I'm so angry with my husband's brother and his fiance right now!!! My 10yr old daughter(Rachel)was asked a year ago to be a jr.bridesmaid in the wedding party.I was under the impression this was a very casual wedding, it is being held outdoors at a Tavern with reception to follow, it is his 2nd wedding and her 3rd.They have both been horrible at planning this wedding or informing people of their change in plans or new ideas...etc. All this time i am assuming Rachel is going to be a jr. bridesmaid and i had planned to just let her wear the formal gown she had worn for my brother's wedding a year before,unfortunately it no longer fits Rachel,so i call Joy(the fiance) to ask what color dress i should buy Rachel,again still thinking this is a casual wedding.....she informs me that 'WE' already went dress shopping at a bridal shop, all the dresses were ordered and paid for already, that she already has someone picked out to stand up with BIL's 9yr old son"...she then tries to blame me saying she told me this a year ago........NO SHE DIDN'T!!! I even told her that she never told me anything at all about formal gown, fittings or anything!! She just says " sorry, but she can serve cake now if she wants"....SERVE CAKE???!!!!! How fricken rude and insulting is that? How do i explain to my sobbing,heart broken daughter why she was dropped?? OH im so angry with alcoholic witch right now.....my hubby is supposed to be an usher, but is ready to tell them to find a new one,and oh, by the way, the bride and groom expect to have gift opening here at my house the day after the wedding........im ready to tell her " oh ,sorry, i can't, i thought i told you that?!!"..........my poor daughter has been crying on and off all day, she is so hurt!!!!
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ugh how awful!! can your husband talk to them about that?
How terrible to break a young girls heart! 
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What a harsh lesson for your daughter. Some people get so wrapped up in their own thing that they don't think about whom they're hurting. Just give your daughter a big hug and tell her she can spit in the punch. LOL
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People can be so bloody self centred!
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That's a really awful thing to happen to you at that age. I would defnitely understand if you decided not to let them use your house.
People can be so self absorbed, it's horrible.
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If I were old enough to get married (which I'm not) She would Be the center of Attention At my Reception. And No she wouldn't have to serve cake she would get first choice of the peice she wanted  Tell the "Witch" she can serve her own cake
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Oh, thats awful. Your poor daughter must be heartbroken. What about being an extra flower girl? I agree, serving cake just isn't the same as being in the wedding!  She expects you to host the gift opening party but excluded your daughter??!! Thats just WRONG!
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i sooooooooooo think you shouldn`t let her use your house, the damn cheek. that is so rude. does she not respect childrens feelings? sending big hugs to your daughter, bless her
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 From my brother's wedding April '05.
Edited by countrygirl (06/05/06 10:42 AM)
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She is so pretty how old is she? But like the others say tell the Rude lady to rent a place to open her stupid gifts.I mean she kicks your duaghter out of the wedding aand expects ypu give a gift party thats So wrong!!!!
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She's 10 yrs old now.
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Weddings really turn people crazy. I got fired from a wedding last year...I was 28 and it still really really hurt me, I can imagine that your little girl is upset and that you are furious, and rightly so!
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which is probably why the "witch" didn't want to be outshown at her own wedding by a junior bridesmaid. I can't believe that she would do that to a young gal and then expect Mom to pick up the pieces.
Instead your family should make other plans and "oops...didn't we tell you" and have a great time and not bother with hosting the gift opening. The nerve.
I hope your daughter's broken heart heals soon. *hugs* 
Michelle
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