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Oh Shannon, I'm so sorry to hear that!
Do you have a garage? Make him sleep in there! Better yet how about in his new car in the parking lot of the restaurant...lol.
I'm sorry, this just really angers me to hear that he's being such an ass and is totally taking advantage of staying in the house. I mean as everyone has said he will have to pay you child support and probably alimony if you're supply teaching.
Have the fulltime postings gone up yet in Alberta?
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I don't *think* he'd be stupid enough, but his porn is "barely legal" porn and he's made a million cracks about when kayleigh's friends are teenagers... stuff I thought he was just being a loser about but it's making a lot of sense now.
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Even if the dad is abusing her, Trevor is abusing her, too. He is taking advantage of someone who is not only young but vulnerable, too! 
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we do not have a garage. we rent a townhouse.
And yes, the postings have gone up. Where are you from and what do YOU do?
I do very well FOR a sub but really it's only $20,000 CDN a year, and that's not enough to raise my gorgeous girl.
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That is not even funny. That joke is disgusting.
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and I'm just, shaking my head and trying not to throw up!
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I know!
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And I thought he was just saying it to get a rise out of me. I've just fallen so far in my heart this week. I just wish someone could tell me what is appropriate to feel!
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Hi Shannon,
I just graduated teacher's college at the University of Windsor (Junior/Intermediate with a Phys.Ed teachable). I just moved to Durham region about an hour outside of Toronto.
I've been applying to positions like crazy, got an interview early on for one but sadly didn't get it. That's ok though I wasn't expecting to get the job from my first interview...lol. I have been placed on the supply list though and the rate of pay is very good, they just signed a new collective agreement so it's gone up to $171/day. Toronto teaching positions go up at the end of June so I will try my luck with that. There system is much easier you first have an initial interview to get put on the 'eligible to hire list' and then from there you call and book an interview with the principal when jobs are advertised. In Durham you send your resume directly to the principal but they decided whether to call you.
Oh well, a little frustrating but hopefully it all turns out ok.
20,000 doesn't seem like much. Are you able to claim unemployment insurance in the summer at all?
Jenn
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If you have any supply teaching tricks I'd love to hear them.
I'm a little nervous about it.
Jenn
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I cannot believe he said that! Shannon I do not want to offend you, but I would be very careful leaving my daughter with him. You did think that all of this was a joke once before, but now you've learned that he's serious, and is really doing the things that he jokes about. I would be seriously concerned about my daughter with him as she grows up. I know he probably would never do anything.. but from an objective point of view (and I know thats hard for you to do because you love him- he's really crossed the line). I truly hope that his jokes are just jokes, but the fact that he's so interested in younger women, makes me wonder if he's really joking about what he says he is. I don't want to offend, but its something that you should think about, considering I can imagine how hard it is for you digest that because I know you still love him.
It sounds like he's given you a lot of crap that you've put up with over the years (not going to family events, being a jerk, looking at porn comprised of barely legals). If anything you've gone above and beyond as a wife. A lot of people wouldn't allow their husbands to stay out late, and look at porn, so in that fact, he was a lucky man. He'll someday realize that the grass is NOT greener on the other side. because good luck finding a woman that is as accepting as you were.
Ugh.. I still cannot believe that comment.. i'm sorry, but I now think he needs to be kicked out. Make him live in a cardboard box if necessary. He's crossed the line and is manipulating you to let him stay in the house at this point.
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