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he wouldn't hire me at his restaurant because he didn't want the politics. I'm not even sure thy're dating but it should be illegal if they are or do.
and his response to what would happen if they do date, and his restaurant is on the line for this?
"I'd just make her quit"
WTF???? I cannot even wrap my brain around this. Someone's ona sick power trip. I'm so mad and disgusted and hurt that I can't even cry about it!!
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I'm just beside myself with...I don't even KNOW which emotion to feel!! What if his daughter knew?? Poor innocent kayleigh!!
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I guess...I don't even know how t feel. it's grossly inappropriate. First of all, he is her BOSS, secondly he is married to me and has a child only 13 years younger, and thirdly, he is 29 years old!
I don't know even where to begin in my disgust and anger and whatever i is supposed to be that I feel. I feel like the guy REALLY needs help.
And irony or no? He has been talking about younger girls to me for a while, and looks at "barely legal" porn. Oh, God, I wish I knew that it'd lead to this!!
*crying*
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Shannon,
I'm so sad for you. The truth is that it seems like this really makes things over--really over. You probably couldn't ever go back after this, and that has got to be as devastating as anything else.
It's just me, but I would probably make sure the girl's parents know what's going on. I think a lot of men probably fantasize about girls that age, but most men understand that the maturity factor makes it inappropriate. It just goes back to the fact that Trevor is very, very lost right now.
I'm so sad for you and your family.
Hugs!!!!!!!!!
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and threatened Trevor, but apparently according to Trevor he doesn't CARE!!
This is NOT the man I married, and I don't even know WHO this man is anymore.
it's obviously over, but it still makes me think he's ill or something and I want to like, save him...I'm debating telling his mother...she and I are close but she said she didn't want to know about the bad stuff. I'm really torn.
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Hi Shannon,
I'm so sorry that he is putting you through this. I really hope that he has now moved into his brother's place b/c there's no way that you should have to have him under your roof a minute longer.
His behaviour is totally unacceptable and disrespectful to you. It's just not fair that he's putting you and your daughter through this.
I'm glad that book has some good advice for you. Hopefully work will keep you busy for a while to take your mind off of things.
Sending lots of positive thoughts your way.
Jenn
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Yeah, don't go there. It could burn a major bridge with his family, and you need all the support you can get! Just spill to us and your friends as much as possible.
Just remember that this is not your fault! He obviously needs some major therapy and spiritual guidance. He lost his way somehow.
I'm relieved to know that the girl's dad knows and at least has his head on straight!
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because currently his brother is living with a good friend of his, who happens to be also a good friend of mine. When she moves out(and oh, do I wish it was out to here!)then Trevor can move in. Until then, he has no offers of where to stay, and his mother will not let him stay either because he's out till all hours of the night. He's just being so deviant. honest to God, I feel like this is Jerry Springer stuff, and I can't stand to be associated with it, but I guess I'm counting down the month. Until I'm frighteningly broke or bankrupt because of this, and until he is gone.
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I have been away most of the evening...in the US, if a man over 18 is sleeping with someone under 18, he can be convicted of statutory rape. I am not making a call as to if Trevor has crossed that line but he better start thinking with his brain.
You have much information to hold over him when it comes to court.
I am so sorry....
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is that5 the dad has been abusing the girl, so he's obviously overreacting, and Trevor's bosses are all supposedly on Trevor's side about it, even though they've talked to him about it...it's soooooooo weird.
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