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it would be corwardly and unlike me, the real me, to just walk away without a fight. Not that I'm confrontational, not at all but I will certainly strive to keep this marriage together. God knows we all have days we aren't crazy about our lover and sometimes don't even LIKE them, but so what> Love is a decision and it's work. 
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Don't really have any advice to add that hasn't been said but wanted to say I am praying for you and hope things will work out. Hang in there sweetie!!
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...this is such a personal matter and the only way I get through things is by talking them out, and guess what....when your beloved ain't tlaking much, you don't want to throw stuff at him....
But he's more chatty as days go by! 
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I also have been married many years. There have been so many times when I thought I could not take one more breathe around this man without passing out. (no violence, just a way of speaking). He has said he felt the same way. There is so much work that goes on day in and day out to keep a marriage strong. IT takes many talks, through long periods of not speaking, to me that is the most painful.We have always come back to each other. After 31 years, we have found a way to live with each other and appreciate the love we have, it is a very hard and long job. I pray that for Kayleighs sake that the two of you can work things out.
If it were me, the porn would have to go, totally, period. I just could not raise my child in a home with that filth. If he truly is addicted, he does need help. Though it is difficult to get someone to admit an addiction. It may take a long time for him to get full of it long enough to say he needs help. And, that is my prayer for him and you, that he will get the help he needs to move on into a healthy marriage, you so deserve that Shannon!
I have an adult son right now who I am talking with daily, he won't admit his addiction, he keeps saying he is not addicted, he does not need help. Though today, he told me he would see a therapist,and that is where I am hopeing he will learn that he needs to admit these things and get the help he truly needs before he looses everything dear to him.
God Bless You Shannon, I really do relate!
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