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No words of wisdom, Shannon, just wanted to let you know how sorry I am. 
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Oh Shannon,
I do know how you are feeling. I'm so sorry. I have been exactly where you are (except there was another woman). On Feb. 8th, 1996 my ex told me he was out of love and was leaving me. On Feb. 9th he left. It was OK with me from a "love" standpoint because I didn't love him anymore either, but it was scary because like you, I had a young child ( my son had just turned 3). It bites when some one just decides to dispense of their spouse, doesn't it? Even if you are already feeling estranged, it hurts real bad when your spouse just says it out loud.
A word about amicable divorces. Few stay that way. Wise words from Sand, please see an attorney ASAP. Before my husband even told me he was leaving, he had already planned to take custody of our son and move out of state with him. This never actually happened , but it was a good thing that I sought top-notch representation for myself and my son's sake, because it did get ugly.
On a better note, this time of my life turned out to be absolutely exhilerating! After I got used to the fact that he was gone, I got real happy and eventually met some one else. It was a great time in my life in many ways.
Hang in there Shannon, you are such a positive person and you really are young and you have so much ahead of you!
Laura
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Oh Shannon I can't even begin to imagine what you are going through and I know you and Kayleigh don't deserve for this to be happening. You are such a strong woman I have no doubt you'll work things out for you two. I'm so sorry and will keep you in my thoughts.
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Shannon,
I am so sorry to hear that you are going through such a rough time. I just want you to know that I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
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Nelly,
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My dad left my mom for her best friend. I can understand your anger. lease see my latest post though.
I agree with you 100% but I'm not calling it quits yet. I have hope still.
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Yes, I love him like nobody else!!! I do NOT want this to end, and I am willing to do whatever it takes, and he knows that.
Read my new post as to why I really doubt it has anything to do with me. And why I think we have hope still.
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Thant's what I called it before I said that it was his work. And I believe that's what it is. He is so pressured at work and he's so closed off to talking about his feelings. So there's definintely work to do if we stay together. his mom is talking to him right now. I just pray they can knock some sense into the boy. I'm absolutely the perfect wife for him, and vice versa.
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Ok I will read your new post!
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