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That really sucks, Shannon. Have you guys talked about going to marriage counseling? Maybe that would help?
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Dear Shannon,
I'm so sorry to hear about your separation. I don't know what to say, but you are such a wonderful person that I know you'll get through this.
I'll be hoping that you get that fulltime teaching position for September.
Jenn
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The point of my long story is that things will seem/feel really bad for quite some time. BUT, once you get over the loss of what you thought was so wonderful, you may just end up with something that you could never have imagined before.
I couldn't have said it better myself. My divorce(s) stunk, but better things were waiting, simply put. Hang in there, and if you ever need a sympathetic ear, like Lauren, I've been there and through a lot, and I'm here for ya.
*hugs*
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I am so sorry Shannon. I am sending lots of prayers and hugs your way. Any chance of marriage counseling or speaking with a clergyman? Good luck honey and know we are thinking of you and are here for you! **hugs**
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I don't know what to say other than I love you *hugs* Keep posting and let us know how we can be here for you.
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Shannon, I'm sorry to hear that you're separating. Hang in there and stay strong, I know you'll get through this.
I know some people might not like what I'm going to say next but here goes. It sounds like he's going through some kind of mid life crisis, and for your sake I hope he snaps out of it. The jaded cynic in me thinks although he says there's no one else, there probably is, or he might have an eye on someone. I've seen this happen many times, and it's even happened to me once with an ex-boyfriend.
Although you're going to try to keep things amicable, please get all the child support and alimony done through the courts. That is so vital to do because when a new girlfriend or boyfriend enters the picture, if the roles are reversed, there is usually trouble when the monthly payment comes due.
Edited by Gracie (05/17/06 07:00 PM)
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Live like there's no tomorrow. Love like you've never loved before.
IBS A 20+ years, Chronic Migraines, Chiari Malformation (decompressed June 22, 2010), Brachial Neuritis, and ??? the list just keeps growing, but I'm still shiny side up! 
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 Courage doesn’t always roar. Sometimes courage is the quiet voice at the end of the day saying, “I will try again tomorrow”. Mary Anne Radmacher
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Shannon, I am very saddened to hear this. You are an amazing person with a great heart and you certainly don't deserve this kind of B.S.
If you have any problems struggling to afford groceries, I can probably help you out a bit. Please do not be afraid to ask.
Your friend,
EvilCats
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oh shannon! I am so incredibly sorry for what you are going through. You are an incredible woman and you don't deserve this at all! you're in my thoughts and prayers.
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