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Had to have the Tummy Talk!
      #259874 - 04/24/06 12:24 PM
Nelly

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Loc: Within stray mortar fire of DC

It's my bday this week! But I had to have the discussion about my stomach issue(s) when they asked me why I wouldn't be eating ice cream at my little (new) office party.

I've only been here 2 weeks and I'm already outed as a stelth sickie!

~nelly~

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      #259887 - 04/24/06 01:07 PM
Sara-Sage

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Oh really? I always told work people that I had a sensitive stomach and it ended there. Did you actually tell them you have ibs?

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Re: Had to have the Tummy Talk! new
      #259888 - 04/24/06 01:08 PM
michele

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Happy birthday!! Isn't that "tummy talk" always fun with new people??! Got any plans for the special day?

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happy birthday! new
      #259890 - 04/24/06 01:09 PM
Double J

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don't do the ice cream...

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Oh ya and.... new
      #259891 - 04/24/06 01:09 PM
Sara-Sage

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY NELLY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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      #259894 - 04/24/06 01:17 PM
Nelly

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I told them I had stomach problems when I ate and took medication for it. They see me popping pills so at least it offered them an explanation...!

~nelly~

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Re: Oh ya and.... new
      #259895 - 04/24/06 01:23 PM
TommyNY

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Happy Birthday Nelly. I hope you had a great day!

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Re: Had to have the Tummy Talk! new
      #259899 - 04/24/06 01:35 PM
Sara-Sage

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That's a really easy way to put it without offering too much information! Sounds like you've had practice...

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      #259900 - 04/24/06 01:38 PM
lalala

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Happy birthday! How are you going to celebrate?

Oh yes - the tummy talk. It sounds like you handled it well! If I don't say anything, people assume I'm on a diet. I don't like to talk about it in detail, but it's usually enough if I just explain I have a bowel disorder .

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      #259904 - 04/24/06 01:49 PM
Kimm

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Loc: Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Ugh....that's the worst.

At least you've said what you have to say about your tummy problems and it's over and done with.

It's never fun having to explain this stuff though.

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      #259913 - 04/24/06 02:44 PM
pinkprincess

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Loc: Manchester, u.k

I hate explaining it too. Most people i tel, i tel them i have ibs...but iv stil not told my university lecturers and boy that makes life difficult...i just cant face that tho, even after 2 years!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY anyway
Hope u had a wonderful day ice cream etc aside

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Happy birthday, Nel! new
      #259932 - 04/24/06 06:24 PM
melitami

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Loc: Ewing, NJ, USA (IBS-D, Vegetarian)

Well, at least they wanted to try for your birthday!

Have an awesome birthday week! Check your email!

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      #259938 - 04/24/06 07:09 PM
Toady

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Loc: A small city, Northwestern Ontario, Canada

I just got through to my bosses (5 men) that I have a chronic illness which affects me enough I can't always be at work - although I have never missed a full day there yet for my IBS (damn loyalty anyway..) But in 5 years, they just figured out lately - gee, Cass hasn't been herself lately - for 2 1/2 months!! I hope your new co-workers are easier going than my bosses!!

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      #259963 - 04/25/06 05:31 AM
Kiwii

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Happy Birthday Nel!! (Maybe Lock will blow you a kiss during Lost!)
It's ggod that you had the talk, it's much easier, because I've found when I try to hide it, it's much more stressful. I hope things are going well in your job other than that!

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Re: Had to have the Tummy Talk! new
      #260001 - 04/25/06 08:13 AM
Nelly

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LOL S-S! I've def had experience!!!

~nelly~

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Somehow I missed the chance to say happy birthday! nt new
      #260016 - 04/25/06 09:50 AM
ecmmbm

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Re: Had to have the Tummy Talk! new
      #260032 - 04/25/06 11:42 AM
Ravyn

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Loc: New Jersey

First off, Happy Birthday, Nelly!!!!!

Second, at my former job, I had to explain because they all knew I went for a colonoscopy. At this job, I waited a few months before saying anything. A woman I work with has IBS-D, so that helped make things easier. It also helps that I work with/for a GREAT female boss (no offense to the guys....it's just easier talking to the same sex). I had some problems when I first started working here, so I had to say something. Things are MUCH better now. This job is A LOT less stressful than my other one!

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Thank you for the bday wishes! new
      #260041 - 04/25/06 12:57 PM
Nelly

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I had a nice birthday. I got cake at work and everybody wished me happy birthday (probably because I had a big leftover cake on my desk that read "IRTHDAY").

~nelly~

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Happy Birthday Nelly!!! ENJOY!! -nt- new
      #260042 - 04/25/06 12:58 PM
Dr. Spice Yamin

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Re: Thank you for the bday wishes! new
      #260052 - 04/25/06 01:49 PM
Sara-Sage

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Did your BF get you anything special or do anything sweet for you?!

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Happy Birthday Girl! new
      #260073 - 04/25/06 04:55 PM
Tissy

Reged: 07/15/04
Posts: 773
Loc: Baltimore, MD

I always dreaded starting a new job because eventually someone would figure out out I had stomache issues and inquiring minds want to know "What's wrong with you?". I will be at my current job a year in July and they are really cool people, they except me as I am. I can belch like a man and noone even skips a beat in conversation anymore.

I wish you much support from your fellow co-workers and I hope you had a great b-day week.


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Hope you had a good day, Nelly... new
      #260189 - 04/26/06 11:49 AM
Augie

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Posts: 5807
Loc: Illinois

Happy belated birthday. Was it April 25th?

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Happy Birthday Nelly!, Hope your new job is going well! -nt- new
      #260194 - 04/26/06 12:02 PM
Johnny T. Reb

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