wow.....all apologies!!!!....please read.....
#231551 - 12/14/05 12:34 PM
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Lyndsey
Reged: 02/16/05
Posts: 581
Loc: Bay Area, CA
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geeze, sorry guys, i honestly don't have anyone really in my life that has a sensible point of view...i was upset from what i saw my fiance do....or not do...whatever...i know some people are liberal, and some are more conservitive...personally i'm more liberal, but brought up in an extremely uptight environment.
i'm not sure if what i said what offensive, or what others said...like i said, i joke like that...or say things how i feel at the time, and if anyone is upset, i really am sorry, i actually say some off the wall stuff....but i guess if you know my in person...people get it, but if you don't, you may not..so my intentions were not to upset anyone, i tend to forget some people will take offense to what i said...my mom would FREAK out! (but thats a different topic)
cassie, if you need to delete my thread go ahead...i was really upset, and like i said, i really don't have friends outside of work, and my good friend i have now has been with her boyfriend for 5 years, so nothing really shocks her now...lol...and my other friend is total church-going...which she would listen, but completely be upset and tell me he sinned!! so having different points of view helped me....
as far as the unspeakable topic goes..mike and i got in an argument, so we let it cool off, and now we are fine, and we were able to get other things we want from eachother out in the open...so with everthing you gotta learn something.
but again...so sorry if anyone got offended....i'm not use to starting a riot!!!!!! though i do somehow cause alot of controversy without meaning to...or discussions that don't end for a while....
so with that...again, for the people who understood what i was feeling and saying etc, thank you, for those who were upset by it...sorry...i really needed to blow off steam in a bad way, before i like broke something or anything...
in the future, if i say something whacky just say lyndsey....your gettting a litle crazy...and i'll stop!! really, sorry guys!! but try to see where i was coming from too!!
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I think the way you feel is always valid. And besides, you're pregnant... you're allowed to have whatever crazy or totally rational emotions you want! 
(My boyfriend lied about having some "men's" magazines a couple of years ago - he said he'd given that sort of thing up cause now he had me. I found 'em in his drawer when I was looking for the clothesbrush one day.... and I laughed and teased him about it for the next couple of years! I think he's probably embarassed about it and that's why he chose to lie)
Anyway, we're all friends here, right? We wouldn't throw a hissy fit and leave our real life relationships over a difference of opinion, would we? So let's all hug and remember we're here to support each other through our digestive troubles, not to agree on religion/porn/politics/etc etc.
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*Emma*
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No need to apologize Lyndsey! I think the whole thing got so blown out of proportion. So many people got affected in different ways. It seemed as though Bev's goodbye post (which I believe had nothing to do with your post)then prompted people to use that post to say goodbye due to the comments from made on your post. Ughhhhhhh what a mess.
I'm one of those though that has the feeling if you don't like what's being posted on a particular comment, simply skip it. Feel free to read it but refrain from commenting! If it's something that you truly believe in then by all means post your heart away but be prepared for comments. I was not offeneded in the least bit by your post. In fact my response to Bev about knowing how she felt by neglecting other aspects in my life simply meant I'm gonna TRY not to be on so much so that I can pursue what I need to. It had nothing to do with your post. In fact, I hadn't even read any of it at that point.
I believe that you truely were looking for advice since you were upset and it just got blown out of proportion. Don't worry there still are some of us "neutral ones" that can pretty much handle any posts! We aren't going anywhere. Hopefully you can still feel you can come to us for advice!
Take care!!! 
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~~~Lisa~~~
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I posted on this in the other thread by you summed it up very nicely Emma! 
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Anyway, we're all friends here, right? We wouldn't throw a hissy fit and leave our real life relationships over a difference of opinion, would we? So let's all hug and remember we're here to support each other through our digestive troubles, not to agree on religion/porn/politics/etc etc.
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Thirding!
#231712 - 12/15/05 12:15 AM
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Linz
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Loc: England
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Don't worry about it...you should have seen the riot I once caused. 
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